Sept. 24, 2023
Addressing Bullies Revisited

On this latest We revisit an ongoing and constantly growing issue again , Bullies. Ishare my inside on a recent story concerning bullyinhg and the ramifications on thevicim. We also touch base on our upcoming holiday giveaway.
On this latest We revisit an ongoing and constantly growing issue again , Bullies. Ishare my inside on a recent story concerning bullyinhg and the ramifications on thevicim. We also touch base on our upcoming holiday giveaway.
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Cousins and kin folks, Welcome,
welcome, Welcome in to the latest episode
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of your favorite podcast, That Mind, currently under construction. I am your
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host. Thank you for joining me
today. I know y'all been a little
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worried and whatnot. You know we
will We're back in for rotation. We
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are back. We are back.
We are back, cousins, kin folks.
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It see its season five, Season
five of your favorite podcast, Season
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five that in what if not for
you all, If not for y'all,
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cousin of king folks, we wouldn't
be here and not for your support,
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emails, your love, your uh
support, we are just you period.
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Because again, we are a creative
we are a village. You know what
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we see at the end of every
podcast. You know what we say,
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we will say to the indivisible.
But thank you for joining me today.
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Listen, I'm gonna jump straight into
it. Cousins and kind folks. I
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saw a video today that and I've
seen several of them. Uh yea.
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For those who know you know how
I feel about bullying. Y'all know how
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I feel about bullets. I can't
stand bullets. They can't stand anybody who
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feel that they have to have to
take the time or have the need or
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the inkling to the mean someone to
be little, someone to be rate someone,
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and any shape, form or fashion, whether it's physically, verbally,
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emotionally, or intellectually, it doesn't
matter to me how whatever form it is,
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I despise it completely in every shape, form and fashion of it.
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I can't stand bullets. What do
you get out of it? Nothing?
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For whatever twisted purpose that they do
that it that it comes to in your
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mind I'm talking to you, bullets
right now. Whatever, whatever inkling that
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it comes to you in your minds, what goes through that? What satisfaction
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do you give? It doesn't make
you feel good to do so, doesn't
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make you feel powerful. It's this
retaliation possibly for him, you being picked
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on when you were younger, or
being or being dogged to be little by
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those who in a thirty figures you, maybe in your family, like your
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parents, or something with that particular
nature, so you decide to take it
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out on everybody else. Is that
the case? Is this something that's taught?
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It's this a learned Well, it's
definitely a learned behavior, because none
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of us comes out to be bullies. So this is a learned behavior.
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But the video I was talking about
here a little earlier. I'm sorry I
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got sidetrack. Y'all know how I
am and how passionate I get when it
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comes to talking about bullies go it's
just can't stand'em. I just can't.
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But this video I saw you really
disturbed me. So there was a
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young black kid, a teenager fourteen
years old, got invited to come out
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and hang out with four of his
friends. Now, as I understand from
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this video and this story, all
of these friends were Caucasian. These all
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of these kids went to school together, so they all lived roughly in the
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same neighborhood community wherever. But they
all live in proximity of each other.
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But all got to or asked to
come hang out with them at the lake.
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So they went to this like to
do. So one of these friends
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decided to get upon himself to not
only belittle and be raped said friends that
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they and that he invited. They
took it upon himself too when they get
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in the water to attempt to drown
him. Yes, you heard me right,
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cousins and king folks. He attempted
to drown this young man. And
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so the others were standing by looking
and not do anything to help. They're
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laughing about it, but just so
happened. There was a bystander there also
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who heard the young man screaming and
asking for help, and he came to
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assist. Now, the other three
what they claimed that that was just nothing.
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They were just playing, But he
was literally try to drown this young
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man, and so the authorities were
called. There was an investigation. Shouldn't
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have been much of an investigation.
Parents were involved, of course, and
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these this young man who attempted to
drown him was arrested. I can't remember
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the charges right now. I'll be
sure to ensure that I find out those
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exact charges. But the main charge
that I listened for that I didn't hear
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was not he was not charged with
it. Because everything about this goes back
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to say so now, I don't
like to make everything about race, but
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a lot of what's happening in this
country nowadays is race related. We can't
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avoid that. There's nowhere around that
conversation. There's nowhere around that. When
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we see more and more of it
again each and every day, there's nowhere
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around that. But I didn't read
hate crime. You did this because of
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the de meaning names, because I'm
not gonna say what it was called,
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but we all know, right,
because it's the kind folks we all know
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I was. Ah, I don't
have to say it, but we all
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know what he was called by this
young man and then attempted to be drowned
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on top of that brilliant that was
his sole purpose of inviting him there,
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to demean him, to ridicule him, to attempt to drown him. And
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I'm sure, and I think the
most high that this young man did not
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lose his life, that somebody was
there enough to see and hear him his
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cries, his pleas for help and
came to help him. I'm grateful for
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that. But had not that said
person been there, what would have happened?
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And I'm more than show we'd have
got a whole lot of the same.
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Oh he slipped, Oh it didn't
mean to. Oh I felt that
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I was in danger. Yeah.
I get get tired of here in those
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same excuses and then they go for
that foolishness. Where as black men as
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black people period. But I'm right
now, I'm talking about my black brother
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my brothers. We're always made out
to be the most violent people in the
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word that we're so violent that we're
a danger, that they're afraid of us.
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But when it comes to violence,
it's not us who's always so violent.
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It's the palm color. It's not
us always. It's not us.
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But they have no reason to only
because of how we look. And that
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just burns me up on so many
different levels. How can you not dislike?
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How can you hate hate hate a
person because of the color of their
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skin. You have no other reason
to do so. You know nothing about
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them personally, You don't know how
they grew up, where they grew up,
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or if they have a disdain for
you, And then to say form
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of fashion that doesn't matter to you
at that moment, you immediately dislike them
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because of their color. That It's
sad, But that's the state of this
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country that we live in right now
called the United States. We're finding ourselves
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repeating history. We're finding ourselves doing
so we cannot allow that to happen.
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Cousins again, folks, we are
not going back to what was before,
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although the powers that be are doing
everything they can tend to do so now
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I'm not gonna get into politics and
anything of that particular nature. Yall know
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that it's not my ram. That's
not my forte. That's not what I
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do. But I'm gonna have We're
gonna have some conversation about that in this
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season of currently under construction. I'm
gonna have a get a couple of guests
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on who that is their realm of
business, that is their forte, that
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is what they do and what they
talk about, and they're gonna give us
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a whole lot of insight or what's
going on in this country and what we
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can do, what we need to
do to step up. But I digress.
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So this young man who committed this
violent act and these others that stood
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around with him, there weren't charges
of adults, they were charges of juveniles,
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but was immediately released until his parents'
custody. You committed something so horrendous
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to the point that they they they
homo told you but attempted homicide. But
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you have been released until your parent's
custody not to come in contact with this
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young man, that anybody in his
family and going forward. But then was
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that s what does their teacher said
individual about his about his actions? Seeing
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for me in a situation like that, that lets them know that what he
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did was okay. Although he got
in trouble, but what he did was
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okay that there would never be in
their consequences or repercussions for his actions.
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So going forward in the future,
and I'm gonna try to keep an eye
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on this, this particular story,
cousins and kin folks were going forward in
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the future. That means he will
then probably develop the mind said that,
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Oh, regardless or whatever I do, I can get away with it because
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I'm the right pigmentation to do so. So yeah, I can I can
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do that. I can do that. Bullies again, y'a've heard me say
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this before. They always running packs. They always know who to pick on,
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see for those that they've deemed weak, and then it's some some shape
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form or fashion. These are the
ones that they pick on. But then
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they never do it individually. They
never do it alone. It's always in
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packs. I aligned h bullies to
a pack of hyenas. If you all
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know from school history, if you
watch the Animal Channel or Discovery or whatever
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the case may be, you know
hyenas running packs. But if you catch
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any one of'em individually, you'll
run them off scared as all outdoors.
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But when it's four or five of
them together, Oh, they build a
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badass then, Oh yeah, they
they're ready to run up on you,
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especially if they catch you by yourself. Oh they're ready to run up on
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you. Oh they're ready to stand
out big, especially that lead one who's
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just as scary as the rest of
them. But that's how bullies run.
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They always run in packs. They
always need a yes man, a yes
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man or somebody the key key or
co signed with the foolishness that they're doing.
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Had a really good friend and I
was trying to use that kind of
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using that word loosely, but they
were this person and this person I know
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and I have always had a pretty
good associate ship. But they had a
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nice ongoing business on the internet,
and they were bullied into the point on
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the Internet that was appointed they had
to shut down their site and and think
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of another stream of uh uh avenue. They had to shut down their social
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media presence which helped their business,
because they were being bullied because some troll
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decided to because they wouldn't give them
any attention, They decided to make this
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person's life miserable and attacking them and
always putting something negative on their their business
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site or uh in their social media
uh platform, or they're taking their likeness
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and and doing all the all different
kinds of vulgar things with their ownline.
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And when this person asked them,
can you remove my likeness? Can you
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removed it from what you're doing?
This person told them it's the end of
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that. I can do whatever I
want to. Blank you and blank you
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and blank you. Now what you're
gonna do about it? See, it's
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foolishness like that. See these especially
these keyboard uh bullets. Oh, they
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they really killed me. Because then
you're big and bold, you can say
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whatever you can hand behind a keyboard
because you figure no want to know where
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you are. Nobody'll really can't identify
you. They don't know why I am.
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They can't find me. Never say
never, because somebody people can if
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they put the energy to do so. But some of these people don't want
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to. They don't want to deal
with that foolishness because it's it's it goes
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nowhere. Who wants to put negative
energy back into something that's already negative?
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Who wants to take the time to
deal with people who they'll never lay her
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eye on at all? But then
I go back and ask why are you
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getting out from this person and you
doing so because again this particular individual,
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he got mad because she didn't give
him any attention or she did not his
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advances, so he decided to try
to bully at her. But see,
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this is this, this is the
thing that I'm seeing more and more of
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cousins and king folks with with with
a lot of young men doing so.
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Now this is gonna be I'm I'm
gonna touch based on this a little bit,
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but this is definitely gonna be another
episode coming up here on currently under
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construction next week. Some of these
young men, when they don't get what
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they want, they don't know how
to accept the word no or a person
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saying hey, no, it's okay, I'm I'm not interested. They then
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in turn want to begin to be
little, said woman. And I've I've
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not only just seen on the internet, I've seen this in person. I've
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seen this in the workplace. That
they'll try to uh approach and and and
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and holler young this this this woman
and this woman tell them and not the
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rude way, Hey you know what, I think you could, but I'm
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not interested. They don't want to
hear that. Then they in turn want
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to begin to be little and be
rate this woman, call it out of
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her name and whatnot, and she
didn't want to begin a smear campaign going
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forward. You want to, then
now to become a bullet to this person
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because they were not interested. They
have the right to say I am not
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interested. There are other there are
other women out there, women right now.
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From the last numbers that I saw
right now, women outweigh men thirty
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to one for this one that turns
you down there twenty nine more. Chief,
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she wasn't interested. Okay, then
go go go holler at you another
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one slim, But for you at
that particular moment, because this woman said
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no, in your mind, you're
saying, how dare she's tell you know?
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How dare she rejects you. I'm
gonna fix her. I'm gonna begin
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to bullet her. I'm gonna smear
her name for what for what? Man?
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Grow up, all you bullies.
You need to grow up. But
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most of you bullies think that you
can do these things and then there are
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no consequences. There are consequences,
whether it be by that person, whether
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it be by someone else, or
whether it be by law enforcement. There
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are consequences. That's unavoidable. That's
unavoidable period. I need you people to
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sit and take a good hard look
you bullies I'm talking to right now,
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if you try to take a good
hard look at yourselves, because guess what
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if you put yourself in one of
these situations bullying somebody, you run across
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the wrong one, you can't do
and become you can't then in turn play
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the victim, because this is a
situation you created. Cousins and kin folks,
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if you think that you've run across
somebody who's attempting to bully you,
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there are things that you can do
to remove yourself from our situations. You
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don't have to deal with them.
You don't have to talk to them,
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you don't have to engage them,
because that is the biggest thing that they
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can't stand and will infuriate them even
were when you do not engage them,
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you take all that power from them, take all that power from them.
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A lot of them don't like if
you turn around, if you flip the
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script on them, which I mean
if I'm I'm not condoning that. But
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in the event, if you're one
of those people who feel that, okay,
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I'm gonna show'em you got the
wrong one. All I'm gonna do
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is throw my hands up, cousins
and and can folks him saying, hey,
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you reap what you so. That's
what the word says from the most
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time. You reap what you so, whether it be good, whether it
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be bad. So you, bullets, if I were you, I get
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somewhere and sat down, chill out, try to enjoy life instead of sitting
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here. Want to run around and
be miserable. So you want to make
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other people miserable or because you can't
get your weight. It's not about you.
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To stop making everything all about you. If you've hurt so for you
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bullets that me hear this podcast,
Please take heed to that. Please take
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hey, I'll go talk to one
of your uncles or your your great aunts
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or uncle or auntie somewhere that have
some sense that and and listen to what
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they have to say. Please all
right, cousins, ken folks, I
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didn't think I gon top to your
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love y'all. I'm gonna get on
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families this year for twenty twenty three, four regionally slash locally, two nationally.
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So November be on the lookout for
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to make yourself available for that giveaway, because again we know it's been hard
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affected by things being shut down and
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been hard on a lot of families, especially at that time of year.
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So we want to ensure that we
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about for Christmas, so they don't
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to buy food all the food I
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We want as sure that they and
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a great Christmas, because that's what
it's all about. It's all about giving,
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sharing and family. You hear me, all right, cousins, Ken
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folks, we gonna get ready to
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we do, you know our model. Come on, get in here with
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me. Come on, get up
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I appreciate you to get a chance to
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episodes, over one hundred plus episodes. But if he choose to listen to
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all of'em, I'm I'm not
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model, you're about to hear right
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our motto? It takes a village
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all are my village, and we're
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you and I step by step,
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Cousins and kin folks, Welcome,
welcome, Welcome in to the latest episode
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of your favorite podcast, That Mind, currently under construction. I am your
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host. Thank you for joining me
today. I know y'all been a little
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worried and whatnot. You know we
will We're back in for rotation. We
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are back. We are back.
We are back, cousins, kin folks.
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It see its season five, Season
five of your favorite podcast, Season
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five that in what if not for
you all, If not for y'all,
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cousin of king folks, we wouldn't
be here and not for your support,
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emails, your love, your uh
support, we are just you period.
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Because again, we are a creative
we are a village. You know what
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we see at the end of every
podcast. You know what we say,
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we will say to the indivisible.
But thank you for joining me today.
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Listen, I'm gonna jump straight into
it. Cousins and kind folks. I
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saw a video today that and I've
seen several of them. Uh yea.
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For those who know you know how
I feel about bullying. Y'all know how
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I feel about bullets. I can't
stand bullets. They can't stand anybody who
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feel that they have to have to
take the time or have the need or
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the inkling to the mean someone to
be little, someone to be rate someone,
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and any shape, form or fashion, whether it's physically, verbally,
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emotionally, or intellectually, it doesn't
matter to me how whatever form it is,
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I despise it completely in every shape, form and fashion of it.
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I can't stand bullets. What do
you get out of it? Nothing?
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For whatever twisted purpose that they do
that it that it comes to in your
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mind I'm talking to you, bullets
right now. Whatever, whatever inkling that
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it comes to you in your minds, what goes through that? What satisfaction
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do you give? It doesn't make
you feel good to do so, doesn't
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make you feel powerful. It's this
retaliation possibly for him, you being picked
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on when you were younger, or
being or being dogged to be little by
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those who in a thirty figures you, maybe in your family, like your
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parents, or something with that particular
nature, so you decide to take it
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out on everybody else. Is that
the case? Is this something that's taught?
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It's this a learned Well, it's
definitely a learned behavior, because none
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of us comes out to be bullies. So this is a learned behavior.
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But the video I was talking about
here a little earlier. I'm sorry I
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got sidetrack. Y'all know how I
am and how passionate I get when it
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comes to talking about bullies go it's
just can't stand'em. I just can't.
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But this video I saw you really
disturbed me. So there was a
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young black kid, a teenager fourteen
years old, got invited to come out
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and hang out with four of his
friends. Now, as I understand from
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this video and this story, all
of these friends were Caucasian. These all
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of these kids went to school together, so they all lived roughly in the
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same neighborhood community wherever. But they
all live in proximity of each other.
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But all got to or asked to
come hang out with them at the lake.
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So they went to this like to
do. So one of these friends
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decided to get upon himself to not
only belittle and be raped said friends that
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they and that he invited. They
took it upon himself too when they get
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in the water to attempt to drown
him. Yes, you heard me right,
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cousins and king folks. He attempted
to drown this young man. And
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so the others were standing by looking
and not do anything to help. They're
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laughing about it, but just so
happened. There was a bystander there also
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who heard the young man screaming and
asking for help, and he came to
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assist. Now, the other three
what they claimed that that was just nothing.
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They were just playing, But he
was literally try to drown this young
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man, and so the authorities were
called. There was an investigation. Shouldn't
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have been much of an investigation.
Parents were involved, of course, and
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these this young man who attempted to
drown him was arrested. I can't remember
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the charges right now. I'll be
sure to ensure that I find out those
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exact charges. But the main charge
that I listened for that I didn't hear
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was not he was not charged with
it. Because everything about this goes back
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to say so now, I don't
like to make everything about race, but
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a lot of what's happening in this
country nowadays is race related. We can't
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avoid that. There's nowhere around that
conversation. There's nowhere around that. When
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we see more and more of it
again each and every day, there's nowhere
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around that. But I didn't read
hate crime. You did this because of
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the de meaning names, because I'm
not gonna say what it was called,
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but we all know, right,
because it's the kind folks we all know
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I was. Ah, I don't
have to say it, but we all
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know what he was called by this
young man and then attempted to be drowned
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on top of that brilliant that was
his sole purpose of inviting him there,
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to demean him, to ridicule him, to attempt to drown him. And
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I'm sure, and I think the
most high that this young man did not
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lose his life, that somebody was
there enough to see and hear him his
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cries, his pleas for help and
came to help him. I'm grateful for
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that. But had not that said
person been there, what would have happened?
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And I'm more than show we'd have
got a whole lot of the same.
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Oh he slipped, Oh it didn't
mean to. Oh I felt that
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I was in danger. Yeah.
I get get tired of here in those
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same excuses and then they go for
that foolishness. Where as black men as
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black people period. But I'm right
now, I'm talking about my black brother
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my brothers. We're always made out
to be the most violent people in the
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word that we're so violent that we're
a danger, that they're afraid of us.
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But when it comes to violence,
it's not us who's always so violent.
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It's the palm color. It's not
us always. It's not us.
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But they have no reason to only
because of how we look. And that
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just burns me up on so many
different levels. How can you not dislike?
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How can you hate hate hate a
person because of the color of their
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skin. You have no other reason
to do so. You know nothing about
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them personally, You don't know how
they grew up, where they grew up,
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or if they have a disdain for
you, And then to say form
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of fashion that doesn't matter to you
at that moment, you immediately dislike them
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because of their color. That It's
sad, But that's the state of this
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country that we live in right now
called the United States. We're finding ourselves
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repeating history. We're finding ourselves doing
so we cannot allow that to happen.
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Cousins again, folks, we are
not going back to what was before,
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although the powers that be are doing
everything they can tend to do so now
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I'm not gonna get into politics and
anything of that particular nature. Yall know
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that it's not my ram. That's
not my forte. That's not what I
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do. But I'm gonna have We're
gonna have some conversation about that in this
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season of currently under construction. I'm
gonna have a get a couple of guests
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on who that is their realm of
business, that is their forte, that
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is what they do and what they
talk about, and they're gonna give us
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a whole lot of insight or what's
going on in this country and what we
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can do, what we need to
do to step up. But I digress.
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So this young man who committed this
violent act and these others that stood
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around with him, there weren't charges
of adults, they were charges of juveniles,
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but was immediately released until his parents'
custody. You committed something so horrendous
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to the point that they they they
homo told you but attempted homicide. But
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you have been released until your parent's
custody not to come in contact with this
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young man, that anybody in his
family and going forward. But then was
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that s what does their teacher said
individual about his about his actions? Seeing
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for me in a situation like that, that lets them know that what he
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did was okay. Although he got
in trouble, but what he did was
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okay that there would never be in
their consequences or repercussions for his actions.
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So going forward in the future,
and I'm gonna try to keep an eye
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on this, this particular story,
cousins and kin folks were going forward in
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the future. That means he will
then probably develop the mind said that,
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Oh, regardless or whatever I do, I can get away with it because
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I'm the right pigmentation to do so. So yeah, I can I can
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do that. I can do that. Bullies again, y'a've heard me say
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this before. They always running packs. They always know who to pick on,
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see for those that they've deemed weak, and then it's some some shape
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form or fashion. These are the
ones that they pick on. But then
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they never do it individually. They
never do it alone. It's always in
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packs. I aligned h bullies to
a pack of hyenas. If you all
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know from school history, if you
watch the Animal Channel or Discovery or whatever
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the case may be, you know
hyenas running packs. But if you catch
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any one of'em individually, you'll
run them off scared as all outdoors.
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But when it's four or five of
them together, Oh, they build a
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badass then, Oh yeah, they
they're ready to run up on you,
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especially if they catch you by yourself. Oh they're ready to run up on
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you. Oh they're ready to stand
out big, especially that lead one who's
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just as scary as the rest of
them. But that's how bullies run.
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They always run in packs. They
always need a yes man, a yes
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man or somebody the key key or
co signed with the foolishness that they're doing.
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Had a really good friend and I
was trying to use that kind of
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using that word loosely, but they
were this person and this person I know
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and I have always had a pretty
good associate ship. But they had a
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nice ongoing business on the internet,
and they were bullied into the point on
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the Internet that was appointed they had
to shut down their site and and think
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of another stream of uh uh avenue. They had to shut down their social
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media presence which helped their business,
because they were being bullied because some troll
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decided to because they wouldn't give them
any attention, They decided to make this
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person's life miserable and attacking them and
always putting something negative on their their business
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site or uh in their social media
uh platform, or they're taking their likeness
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and and doing all the all different
kinds of vulgar things with their ownline.
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And when this person asked them,
can you remove my likeness? Can you
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removed it from what you're doing?
This person told them it's the end of
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that. I can do whatever I
want to. Blank you and blank you
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and blank you. Now what you're
gonna do about it? See, it's
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foolishness like that. See these especially
these keyboard uh bullets. Oh, they
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they really killed me. Because then
you're big and bold, you can say
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whatever you can hand behind a keyboard
because you figure no want to know where
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you are. Nobody'll really can't identify
you. They don't know why I am.
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They can't find me. Never say
never, because somebody people can if
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they put the energy to do so. But some of these people don't want
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to. They don't want to deal
with that foolishness because it's it's it goes
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nowhere. Who wants to put negative
energy back into something that's already negative?
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Who wants to take the time to
deal with people who they'll never lay her
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eye on at all? But then
I go back and ask why are you
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getting out from this person and you
doing so because again this particular individual,
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he got mad because she didn't give
him any attention or she did not his
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advances, so he decided to try
to bully at her. But see,
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this is this, this is the
thing that I'm seeing more and more of
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cousins and king folks with with with
a lot of young men doing so.
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Now this is gonna be I'm I'm
gonna touch based on this a little bit,
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but this is definitely gonna be another
episode coming up here on currently under
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construction next week. Some of these
young men, when they don't get what
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they want, they don't know how
to accept the word no or a person
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saying hey, no, it's okay, I'm I'm not interested. They then
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in turn want to begin to be
little, said woman. And I've I've
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not only just seen on the internet, I've seen this in person. I've
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seen this in the workplace. That
they'll try to uh approach and and and
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and holler young this this this woman
and this woman tell them and not the
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rude way, Hey you know what, I think you could, but I'm
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not interested. They don't want to
hear that. Then they in turn want
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to begin to be little and be
rate this woman, call it out of
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her name and whatnot, and she
didn't want to begin a smear campaign going
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forward. You want to, then
now to become a bullet to this person
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because they were not interested. They
have the right to say I am not
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interested. There are other there are
other women out there, women right now.
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From the last numbers that I saw
right now, women outweigh men thirty
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to one for this one that turns
you down there twenty nine more. Chief,
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she wasn't interested. Okay, then
go go go holler at you another
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one slim, But for you at
that particular moment, because this woman said
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no, in your mind, you're
saying, how dare she's tell you know?
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How dare she rejects you. I'm
gonna fix her. I'm gonna begin
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to bullet her. I'm gonna smear
her name for what for what? Man?
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Grow up, all you bullies.
You need to grow up. But
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most of you bullies think that you
can do these things and then there are
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no consequences. There are consequences,
whether it be by that person, whether
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it be by someone else, or
whether it be by law enforcement. There
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are consequences. That's unavoidable. That's
unavoidable period. I need you people to
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sit and take a good hard look
you bullies I'm talking to right now,
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if you try to take a good
hard look at yourselves, because guess what
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if you put yourself in one of
these situations bullying somebody, you run across
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the wrong one, you can't do
and become you can't then in turn play
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the victim, because this is a
situation you created. Cousins and kin folks,
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if you think that you've run across
somebody who's attempting to bully you,
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there are things that you can do
to remove yourself from our situations. You
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don't have to deal with them.
You don't have to talk to them,
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you don't have to engage them,
because that is the biggest thing that they
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can't stand and will infuriate them even
were when you do not engage them,
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you take all that power from them, take all that power from them.
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A lot of them don't like if
you turn around, if you flip the
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script on them, which I mean
if I'm I'm not condoning that. But
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in the event, if you're one
of those people who feel that, okay,
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I'm gonna show'em you got the
wrong one. All I'm gonna do
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is throw my hands up, cousins
and and can folks him saying, hey,
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you reap what you so. That's
what the word says from the most
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time. You reap what you so, whether it be good, whether it
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be bad. So you, bullets, if I were you, I get
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somewhere and sat down, chill out, try to enjoy life instead of sitting
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here. Want to run around and
be miserable. So you want to make
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other people miserable or because you can't
get your weight. It's not about you.
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To stop making everything all about you. If you've hurt so for you
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bullets that me hear this podcast,
Please take heed to that. Please take
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hey, I'll go talk to one
of your uncles or your your great aunts
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or uncle or auntie somewhere that have
some sense that and and listen to what
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they have to say. Please all
right, cousins, ken folks, I
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didn't think I gon top to your
head off enough. You know. I
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love y'all. I'm gonna get on
up by the hill. I wanna thank
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y'all for joining me today on your
favorite podcast and mind currently under construction.
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So I know you asked me about
it before I've seen the emails.
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Yes, we will be doing our
Christmas giveaway this year. Once again.
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I'm thinking of the parameters this year. It may be similar, but it's
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probably gonna be a little something different. It's not gonna be anything that you
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have to jump through hoops for anything
like that. It will be something simple.
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But this year again we plan on
helping and supporting six families. Six
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families this year for twenty twenty three, four regionally slash locally, two nationally.
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So November be on the lookout for
that information what you have to do
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to make yourself available for that giveaway, because again we know it's been hard
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on everybody these last few year years, especially with us that uh in the
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pattern, you know, being in
the pandemic. I'm been affected by COVID,
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affected by things being shut down and
whatnot. You know. So it's
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been hard on a lot of families, especially at that time of year.
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So we want to ensure that we
give our families one less thing to think
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about for Christmas, so they don't
have to think about do I have enough
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to buy food all the food I
want, or whatever the case may be.
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We want as sure that they and
their family and their loved ones have
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a great Christmas, because that's what
it's all about. It's all about giving,
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sharing and family. You hear me, all right, cousins, Ken
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folks, we gonna get ready to
get up out of here. But before
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we do, you know our model. Come on, get in here with
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me. Come on, get up
in here. You know our model.
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Before I do, Before I go, I want to thank all of our
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new listeners. I've seen your emails
of of you signing up for our our
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emailing list. I've seen you all. I want to thank all of the
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new our new listeners coming in.
I appreciate you to get a chance to
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go back and listen to some of
the replays and some of our earlier episodes.
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I'm not gonna say'a all of'em
because we have five seasons worth for
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episodes, over one hundred plus episodes. But if he choose to listen to
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all of'em, I'm I'm not
opposed to that either. I appreciate you,
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but I'm gonna definitely think all of
our new listeners who've come in.
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I've seen your emails. I appreciate
you. Welcome to the current down the
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construction family, and we are a
family. If you haven't heard by our
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model, you're about to hear right
now in a few minutes. Come on
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getting here, cousin the king folks
to share with'em. And what is
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our motto? It takes a village
to make this thing happen, and you
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all are my village, and we're
gonna continue to build this thing together,
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you and I step by step,
one brick at a time, currently under
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construction. I love you all,
cousins and Kent folks, and I'll talk
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to you soon. Peace.





















