Catching flights for all the wrong reasons

WEBVTT100:00:01.679 --> 00:00:05.400Welcome back. Welcome back to thelatest, newest episode of your favorite podcast200:00:05.440 --> 00:00:08.519in mind, currently under construction.You know who it is. I'm your300:00:08.560 --> 00:00:12.279host. Thank you so much forjoining us today. Uh It's a new400:00:12.400 --> 00:00:16.879day, new start, new mercies. That's all. Just uh take a500:00:16.879 --> 00:00:21.039moment to sit down and uh thankthe most high for allowing us to see600:00:21.120 --> 00:00:24.920yet another day, another day thatwas promised, another day that again us700:00:24.960 --> 00:00:30.760the opportunity to get things together,to make things right, to Um,800:00:30.760 --> 00:00:36.079just the start over and uh havenew mercies and everything. So again,900:00:36.119 --> 00:00:41.960if you haven't already today, takea moment and to say thank you to1000:00:42.079 --> 00:00:46.240the most time because again, thisis a day that we weren't promised,1100:00:46.280 --> 00:00:50.079this is a day that we didn'thave to wake up too, but he1200:00:50.159 --> 00:00:54.280saw fit to breathe the breath oflife and us once again and for us1300:00:54.320 --> 00:01:03.240to have this day. Um U. I just wanna man, today's topic1400:01:03.399 --> 00:01:11.079is like one of those really UmOxymoron type of topics. Now, it1500:01:11.159 --> 00:01:14.719can go either way. Now,before I get into it, what I1600:01:14.760 --> 00:01:19.760want to do is preferences by singingthis. I'm not taking either side for1700:01:19.879 --> 00:01:25.359this. I'm going to give afew from both view points. All right,1800:01:25.400 --> 00:01:27.719cousins and King folks, let's let'smake that clear. Let's make that1900:01:29.359 --> 00:01:33.359understood from the beginning. I'm goingto give a viewpoint from both sides,2000:01:33.640 --> 00:01:36.200because I can see it from bothsides. But at the end of the2100:01:36.280 --> 00:01:38.560day, at the end of thisparticular episode, what I hope to do2200:01:38.799 --> 00:01:46.439is bring some type of awareness tothis Um, give somebody insight and hopefully2300:01:46.480 --> 00:01:49.959for both parts, for both sides, that we can look at this better,2400:01:49.280 --> 00:01:56.599better communicate what's what before moving forwardand ended up putting yourself in situations2500:01:56.640 --> 00:02:01.640like this from either way. Sowhat I'm also seeing a growing trend of.2600:02:02.000 --> 00:02:05.560You know, last episode we talkedabout the growing trend did we see2700:02:05.560 --> 00:02:08.759of Um, angry black men,you know, uh, or these little2800:02:08.759 --> 00:02:12.680boys, I can call them,being these little boys, uh, just2900:02:12.759 --> 00:02:15.120being angry at black women and justwanted to step on them, down them3000:02:15.159 --> 00:02:19.759and be greater and everything. Butthis episode is a little different, but3100:02:19.879 --> 00:02:25.240it's still along the same deal ofwe're dealing with angry men, you know,3200:02:25.639 --> 00:02:30.919uh. Do they have a pointto be angry for this particular deal?3300:02:31.000 --> 00:02:38.560Maybe, maybe not, but doour sisters have a point in their3400:02:38.639 --> 00:02:45.479view on it? Who knows?Let's dig into it, shall we,3500:02:46.240 --> 00:02:52.319one second job, cousins and kindof folks. All right, cousins again,3600:02:52.360 --> 00:02:55.000folks, I do apologize for thatbrief pall, for that brief lapse3700:02:55.560 --> 00:03:00.599uh and what I was doing atthat particular moment um to take that call.3800:03:00.719 --> 00:03:04.000That was a very important call Ihad to take. But Um,3900:03:04.039 --> 00:03:09.080for the most part, um again, I I see this growing trend of4000:03:10.000 --> 00:03:17.919Um, we have men that areinviting women that they maybe have been communicating4100:03:17.960 --> 00:03:24.319with uh to travel um, eitheracross the country or to a couple of4200:03:24.360 --> 00:03:30.360states over, or even to someexotic destination, and they're treating these women.4300:03:30.400 --> 00:03:38.159They are Um UH spending um thousandsof dollars uh to show these women4400:03:38.439 --> 00:03:42.879Um a good time, you know, for the flights itself, you know,4500:03:43.039 --> 00:03:49.319the the food, the exotic hotelsand everything that they're they're standing in.4600:03:49.719 --> 00:03:54.680But then there comes, Um,some disconnect with them, you know4700:03:54.840 --> 00:04:00.919that to point that uh, thesebrothers are expecting these them that they're flying4800:04:00.000 --> 00:04:04.199out to, let's just call itfor what it is, you know,4900:04:05.039 --> 00:04:13.080to put out and that these sistersare not doing it. Um, some5000:04:13.159 --> 00:04:17.920people think and feel that they arein the wrong for doing so. Some5100:04:18.040 --> 00:04:24.959of these brothers are extremely upset withthese sisters that they are not Um,5200:04:25.000 --> 00:04:29.600that they've spent all of this particularmoney on them, and then they're expecting5300:04:29.600 --> 00:04:32.879them put out and these sisters arenot. So, uh, we have5400:04:32.920 --> 00:04:40.759a dilemma here. Um. Andthen some of these brothers are even going5500:04:40.839 --> 00:04:44.160as far as to, you know, they're putting these women out of their5600:04:44.160 --> 00:04:49.120hotels, uh, canceling their flightsfor them to return to that to return5700:04:49.240 --> 00:04:53.560home, and telling them to getit the best way that they can.5800:04:54.399 --> 00:05:00.399I've seen, Um, not justone particular video. I have seen several5900:05:00.480 --> 00:05:06.639different videos of this same thing,the same trend that's going on, and6000:05:09.360 --> 00:05:14.639it's disturbing. It's to Sturb wetook me on so many levels. Now6100:05:14.680 --> 00:05:19.199again, like our prayer face inthe early part of this of this particular6200:05:20.040 --> 00:05:26.439recording of this of of this episode. I'm not taking sides one way or6300:05:26.439 --> 00:05:31.199the other, I'm not blaming onemore than the other, but I want6400:05:31.240 --> 00:05:36.639to ensure that I give a fairassessment of this particular topic and I'm going6500:05:36.680 --> 00:05:40.920to give a view from both pointsbecause again, like I said, at6600:05:40.920 --> 00:05:43.959the end of the day, I'mnot here to point the fingers or blame6700:05:44.040 --> 00:05:46.319anybody for anything in any shape formof fashion, because you know, that's6800:05:46.319 --> 00:05:49.279not what we do here, currentlyunder construction. What we want to do6900:05:49.560 --> 00:05:53.800is enlighten, we want to uplift, we want to encourage and at the7000:05:53.879 --> 00:05:58.639end of each episode, we wantyou to come away with something that may7100:05:58.639 --> 00:06:03.120have given you a reason to starta dialogue with someone else or a reason7200:06:03.160 --> 00:06:05.920to say hey, to think like, Hey, you know what, I7300:06:06.000 --> 00:06:10.279might need to check into that,or hey, you know what, that7400:06:10.399 --> 00:06:14.720really inspired me to do X YZ. So I'm in no way right7500:06:14.720 --> 00:06:20.439now, with me being prepared todive into this and my pointing fingers are7600:06:20.720 --> 00:06:26.199pointing blame at any and anybody hereor there. Okay, all right,7700:06:26.240 --> 00:06:28.240cousins of Kimbels, y'all, stayhere with me and now, y'all,7800:06:28.319 --> 00:06:30.279y'all know how we roll. Youknow how we do this thing. So7900:06:32.319 --> 00:06:35.120now I want to start right here. I'm gonna Start with the brothers.8000:06:35.839 --> 00:06:40.560Now again, brothers, you areentire of you've been having a conversation with8100:06:40.600 --> 00:06:43.879the woman, whether you've met heronline, you met U through a mutual8200:06:44.000 --> 00:06:46.519friend, uh, through one ofthese dating APPS, or whatever the case8300:06:46.600 --> 00:06:51.240may be. UH, most ofI've seen these have been maybe some instagram8400:06:51.319 --> 00:06:56.360models, or so I know.The main video that most people have been8500:06:56.480 --> 00:07:01.680having conversations about on Um Tiktok andtwitter, especially on twitter. They've they've8600:07:01.759 --> 00:07:08.040gone hard and deep on twitter,Oh my God. But Um, it's8700:07:08.079 --> 00:07:12.439been about this one particular episode withthis guy. He literally just he's in8800:07:12.480 --> 00:07:15.160a challenger. He goes dropped off. He's filming at the same time saying8900:07:15.199 --> 00:07:17.240that, yeah, she thought sheshould have set up here and come here9000:07:17.279 --> 00:07:20.680and spend all my money up inthis. That in the third and he's9100:07:20.720 --> 00:07:25.680putting her out the car, tellingher she's got the all. He's canceled9200:07:25.680 --> 00:07:27.639her flight. She's like, well, just tell me what time my flight9300:07:27.680 --> 00:07:30.360thinks. He's like flight, youhave no flight. He's like get home,9400:07:30.879 --> 00:07:33.199come the best way that you can. You know. He they opened9500:07:33.199 --> 00:07:38.399the trunk through her suitcase and stuffout the trunk and he be bashed out.9600:07:38.879 --> 00:07:42.839I'm like, Oh wow, that'scrazy. But Um, and then9700:07:42.959 --> 00:07:46.279of course there's another video of thisbrother. He's into the hotel and she's9800:07:46.319 --> 00:07:49.319on the phone and he's telling herhe's talking about heaven, spent all these9900:07:49.360 --> 00:07:54.560thousands of dollars and about her lobsterand this, that in the third and10000:07:54.920 --> 00:07:57.759uh, she ain't putting out inthis and then her. So she got10100:07:57.759 --> 00:08:01.480to get out and he didn't.Canceled her flight home him and she's calling10200:08:01.519 --> 00:08:03.160a friend, you know, andhe's putting out the hotel, talking about10300:08:03.199 --> 00:08:07.480he has another one woman on theway right now, what not. That's10400:08:07.480 --> 00:08:11.920gonna, you know, do whathe needs to do and whatnot. Brothers,10500:08:11.759 --> 00:08:16.680brothers, look at him. Youput you, you're making it,10600:08:16.680 --> 00:08:22.600you're putting yourself in a real bad, tough position. You are making it10700:08:22.680 --> 00:08:26.879hard on yourselves and you're making ithard on guys who's really truly looking for10800:08:26.920 --> 00:08:33.000something. Now again, you areentitled to do with whatever it is that10900:08:33.080 --> 00:08:39.639you want to do with with yourmoney. If you are taking the initiative11000:08:39.799 --> 00:08:45.120to fly a woman out, whetheryou've been talking to her for a period11100:08:45.159 --> 00:08:46.600of time, short period of time, or whatever the case may be.11200:08:48.159 --> 00:08:56.399Let's be very clear about this.This woman is not entitled or obligated,11300:08:56.320 --> 00:09:01.559hear me, and hear me well, brothers, she's not entitled or obligated11400:09:01.759 --> 00:09:11.519in any shape, form or fashiontwo give her body to you. If11500:09:11.559 --> 00:09:16.960you've flown her across the country tothe next city, to the next state11600:09:16.080 --> 00:09:22.519over or to some exotic destination.She is not entitled or obligated to give11700:09:22.600 --> 00:09:31.480you her body. She is not. Now, if the two of you,11800:09:31.639 --> 00:09:35.759and what I think it should alsohappen, have this conversation and it11900:09:35.840 --> 00:09:41.000should be understood whether the two ofyou are sneaking or whether that or the12000:09:41.080 --> 00:09:45.960kids call a sneaky links, orwhether the two of you are establishing a12100:09:46.080 --> 00:09:50.480relationship or this is just somebody thatyou just want to, you know,12200:09:50.519 --> 00:09:52.879get together, do what grown folksdoing and kick rocks and you just want12300:09:52.879 --> 00:09:58.799to show a good time. Butbut again, make it, make sure12400:09:58.919 --> 00:10:03.320that it's communicated understood that in inthe beginning of all of this, before12500:10:03.840 --> 00:10:07.960you spend your money to fly thiswoman out, that you spend your money12600:10:07.120 --> 00:10:11.480to put her up in this anxietichotel, that you spend your money to12700:10:11.519 --> 00:10:16.240go to these fancy five star restaurantsand everything, you know that that the12800:10:16.320 --> 00:10:20.480main using the meals are cause probablymore than I even make in a two12900:10:20.480 --> 00:10:24.919week period. Now, I'm notabout to tell y'all what I'm making a13000:10:24.919 --> 00:10:30.720two week period, so don't evenask. Let's just say your boy,13100:10:30.799 --> 00:10:33.360do okay. I'm I do okay. Do enough to make sure I take13200:10:33.399 --> 00:10:37.039care of my bills and take careof my children and my grands. So,13300:10:37.519 --> 00:10:43.440but I digress. So again,she is not entitled to that and13400:10:43.480 --> 00:10:48.240she is not obligated, fellas.But again, this should be established and13500:10:48.159 --> 00:10:52.039understood from the jump. And then, you know what, Hey, I'm13600:10:52.039 --> 00:10:56.679gonna even go a little further withthat. She may have, you may13700:10:56.679 --> 00:11:01.039have had that conversation and she mayhave that intention in doing so prior to13800:11:01.120 --> 00:11:05.720getting there. But when she getsthere, the divide between the two of13900:11:05.759 --> 00:11:13.320you may not be what it is. The vibe with the two maybe off,14000:11:13.559 --> 00:11:18.559and if that's the case, again, she's not obligated to do so.14100:11:18.960 --> 00:11:22.240She is entitled to Change Her mind. And guess what, Fellas,14200:11:22.360 --> 00:11:31.600that is okay. If you hadany genuine interest in this woman from the14300:11:31.720 --> 00:11:35.399jump, you know and you're onthe up and up, that should be14400:11:35.440 --> 00:11:41.799okay. You never you can haveanother opportunity. You never know that that14500:11:41.960 --> 00:11:45.399it may, it may change over, uh, from that particular time.14600:11:45.440 --> 00:11:48.559But again, let's be clear,fellaws, she it's not obligated. Nor14700:11:48.240 --> 00:11:56.000if she uh has a right tosit there and UM um give you her14800:11:56.039 --> 00:12:00.559body. Okay, we're gonna puta pen in it. Right now,14900:12:01.759 --> 00:12:05.440sisters, sisters, let me talkto you for your second. Let you15000:12:05.559 --> 00:12:09.000let your cousin, and you can'tfolk talk to you here for a second.15100:12:09.559 --> 00:12:16.039Sisters. Now again, like Ijust told the brothers, you're not15200:12:16.120 --> 00:12:20.480obligated to sit there and share yourbody with this man. If he chooses15300:12:20.480 --> 00:12:24.399to fly you out to a differentstate, put you in a Nice Hotel15400:12:24.679 --> 00:12:30.399or, uh, some exotic locationand everything and and spend several thousands of15500:12:30.440 --> 00:12:35.279dollars on you, he's not atitled Today. But, sisters, let's15600:12:35.360 --> 00:12:37.720let's, let's Le's, let's,let's go up with with you too.15700:12:37.799 --> 00:12:41.600Now. Communication is key. Now, before you accept this man's ticket,15800:12:43.639 --> 00:12:48.200before he even spends anything and youagree to get on this plane, before15900:12:48.320 --> 00:12:52.039you go sit there and pack yourbag up, go to the airport,16000:12:52.600 --> 00:12:58.000go through Um, Um, youknow, t s a get on that16100:12:58.039 --> 00:13:03.240plane. Have that come station withthat brother to be sure and it's understood16200:13:03.279 --> 00:13:05.799that, hey, just because you'reflying me out, you know I'm in16300:13:07.039 --> 00:13:11.120under no obligation to share myself withyou. Be Clear and preconcise with this16400:13:11.240 --> 00:13:13.759brother now, like I said thatthe two of you have been talking to16500:13:13.799 --> 00:13:18.480a point to where y'all have established, Um some type of friendship, slash16600:13:18.519 --> 00:13:22.200relationship, or whether you're sneaky linksor whatever the case may be, and16700:13:22.240 --> 00:13:26.559this is your intention. Alright,then this understood. What's what you know.16800:13:26.799 --> 00:13:31.240Now, if you get there again, you are entitled to Change Your16900:13:31.279 --> 00:13:37.039Mind because the vibe may or maynot be there. That's understood. But,17000:13:37.159 --> 00:13:39.679sisters, what this is? Thisis where I have my problem with17100:13:39.679 --> 00:13:41.519you, with with some of youall that right here, with this,17200:13:41.639 --> 00:13:43.240right here, because say, thisis something that I used to hear my17300:13:43.279 --> 00:13:46.159Mama tiped, my mom and mygrandma tell us all the time. And,17400:13:46.279 --> 00:13:48.480you know, not just me,but tell my sisters also, and17500:13:48.519 --> 00:13:52.399the same thing that I used tosit there and tell my daughters. Now,17600:13:52.000 --> 00:13:56.720what you can what you need tostop doing or put yourself and putting17700:13:56.759 --> 00:14:00.360yourself in a position to where youtake this trip and you cool, do17800:14:00.480 --> 00:14:03.200what's what, and it doesn't gothe way that this brother wants or you17900:14:03.200 --> 00:14:07.840have any particular type of issues.Now you stuck, you like like this18000:14:07.960 --> 00:14:11.960sister, these other couple of sistersthat I'm talking about that I saw the18100:14:13.080 --> 00:14:16.960videos of. They are there,they are stuck this guy and put them18200:14:16.960 --> 00:14:20.639out and canceled their flights and everythinglike that. Now you're stuck in a18300:14:20.679 --> 00:14:22.639different city where you're not from ityou have no way to get home.18400:14:26.320 --> 00:14:31.559Why? Why are you traveling towho knows where and you ain't got your18500:14:31.559 --> 00:14:39.600own money? Come on now,why? What? What? What?18600:14:39.600 --> 00:14:41.159What do we do there? There? What the grown folks do? That18700:14:41.320 --> 00:14:48.159at again? My grandmama and myMama always taught me I don't care if18800:14:48.200 --> 00:14:52.840I was going across town, Idon't care if I'm going to the next18900:14:52.879 --> 00:14:56.720city over, whatever the case maybe. Always said, they always ben't19000:14:56.759 --> 00:15:03.360told us don't go anywhere with anybodyif you ain't got no money. Make19100:15:03.399 --> 00:15:05.879sure you have money because if anything, go home, guess go wrong?19200:15:05.919 --> 00:15:09.919Guess what? You have money toensure that you can do what, you19300:15:09.960 --> 00:15:18.080can get home. Huh? AmI right, I'm listening and you're feeling19400:15:18.080 --> 00:15:20.759it. I'm listening back. Areyou talking to me? Come on now,19500:15:22.840 --> 00:15:24.519come on, sisters. Two ofthe two of these videos I have19600:15:24.639 --> 00:15:30.519seen, maybe three I've seen.These sisters have jumped on these flights to19700:15:30.600 --> 00:15:33.320go out here with these brothers andthey didn't go to the way that these19800:15:33.320 --> 00:15:35.840brothers wanted to, and these brothersthen got upset and everything, and now19900:15:37.320 --> 00:15:41.840you're in a position now that youknow. Hey, you you didn't whether,20000:15:41.919 --> 00:15:43.919what the case, you wouldn't feelinghim, or whether you was trying20100:15:43.919 --> 00:15:46.639to play the brother, or whateverthe case may be. I don't know20200:15:46.840 --> 00:15:52.120if you're took him for UH.Some of the folks called it a simple20300:15:52.159 --> 00:15:54.440or whatever the case. Maybe Idon't know. I'm not trying to insult20400:15:54.440 --> 00:15:58.399anybody, but if you sit thereand you then't took this man's flight,20500:15:58.759 --> 00:16:04.240the money he's spent for this flightand, uh, the money he's buying20600:16:04.320 --> 00:16:10.559for this hotel and this this uh, the food that he's he's purchasing for,20700:16:11.679 --> 00:16:14.559and so you know most of theseguys intentions. Now if you're not20800:16:14.639 --> 00:16:17.919feeling them. Again, I'm nottaking anybody's side. I'm trying to give20900:16:17.960 --> 00:16:21.159both points of view from both sides. If you're not feeling his brother against21000:16:21.159 --> 00:16:23.679sins as, you're entitled to ChangeYour Mind, whether you had intentions to,21100:16:25.080 --> 00:16:27.279uh, you know, do whatgrown folks do when you got there,21200:16:27.320 --> 00:16:30.240not if you weren't feeling you entitedto change your mind, but if21300:16:30.240 --> 00:16:34.840the brother decides to sit there andget mad about the situation and canceled out,21400:16:34.879 --> 00:16:38.000like I've seen in some of thesevideos. Hey, you should be21500:16:38.159 --> 00:16:45.759you should have your own money,rady ain't available, just in case something21600:16:45.840 --> 00:16:49.679like that happened, that you canget your tail home. Now. This21700:16:49.759 --> 00:16:56.000makes no sense for me seeing grownwomen, you know, being and then21800:16:56.000 --> 00:16:59.440put in situations like this and youain't got money, that's yourself home.21900:16:59.440 --> 00:17:00.919You're send to them. What amI supposed to how am I supposed to22000:17:00.960 --> 00:17:07.480get home? What? You inanother city, heel and you so far22100:17:07.480 --> 00:17:10.279away from home and you can cameout there and you ain't bring your own22200:17:10.319 --> 00:17:17.039money. Come on now, comeon, that don't make no sense.22300:17:17.720 --> 00:17:19.759I need try to get on boardwith me on this, sisters, because22400:17:19.759 --> 00:17:25.240this is ridiculous. So I'm I'mI'm this. This is where I'm hot22500:17:25.279 --> 00:17:27.400with your sisters and with this righthere. We got to do better.22600:17:29.119 --> 00:17:33.519We have got to do better.Again, I don't know all the details22700:17:33.559 --> 00:17:38.160or whatever the parameters was prior tothese videos that I've seen. Whatever it22800:17:38.200 --> 00:17:41.839Casse me, whether it was talkedabout, what the trip was supposed to22900:17:41.839 --> 00:17:48.440be about, or whatever the casemay be, but I need if conversation23000:17:48.559 --> 00:17:52.319was had about it, it needsto be understood. Before any ticket this23100:17:52.480 --> 00:17:56.720purchase, any hotel has been bookedor anything of that particular nature. If23200:17:56.839 --> 00:18:00.359not, don't spend this. Don'tspend your time, to spend this,23300:18:00.359 --> 00:18:03.720this person's time and money, andto go out there. And, Fellas,23400:18:03.759 --> 00:18:07.400don't you spend your money and timeto go fly these women here out23500:18:07.400 --> 00:18:10.519here if you ain't had that conversationwith it and it's understood between the two23600:18:10.599 --> 00:18:14.079of you and if it's gonna getto this particular level. But again,23700:18:15.079 --> 00:18:19.160have that conversation. She's entitled theFellas, I'm back to you again.23800:18:19.200 --> 00:18:25.799She's entitled to Change Her mind andif you had any serious intentions about her,23900:18:26.079 --> 00:18:29.279you will respect that. You know, make sure that she gets home24000:18:29.440 --> 00:18:33.240safely and everything. And again,you never know where things may go between24100:18:33.240 --> 00:18:34.680the two of you. She Maythis ave to fly you out next time24200:18:34.839 --> 00:18:40.000or fly you somewhere and, uh, the vibe may be different next time.24300:18:40.039 --> 00:18:44.599She may want to do what's what. You never know, but let's24400:18:44.599 --> 00:18:47.839not flip out like I've been seeingsome of these guys been doing. And24500:18:47.880 --> 00:18:51.279then these are conversations that you're havingprivate. You have no reason to sit24600:18:51.359 --> 00:18:55.519then video this and then put iton the Internet. When we know anything24700:18:55.559 --> 00:18:59.960that goes on the Internet. It'sthere forever. So come on now,24800:19:00.000 --> 00:19:04.359on, cousins and kin folks,I need you all to uh get on24900:19:04.440 --> 00:19:08.119board with this. I need childto do better with this right here.25000:19:08.160 --> 00:19:14.079This is ridiculous. Sisters and brothers, I need y'all to do better,25100:19:15.559 --> 00:19:19.000because this thing here, this isway out of line and need is way25200:19:19.119 --> 00:19:26.359out of bounds. So let's dobetter with that. Let's get let's let's25300:19:26.440 --> 00:19:30.839let's get this thing back on track, let's communicate better and let's make things25400:19:30.920 --> 00:19:37.119understood so that way nobody's being putin a position to where they're somewhere trapped25500:19:37.240 --> 00:19:40.880or being forced into doing something theydon't want to do or anything of that,25600:19:40.960 --> 00:19:44.000particularly because that we don't want,that we don't need. We're not25700:19:44.039 --> 00:19:48.039we're not trying to do that.Okay, let's do this. Let's do25800:19:48.119 --> 00:19:52.599better, because the kin folks havetheir conversation before any money is being spent25900:19:52.920 --> 00:19:59.880like that. have their conversation witheach other and again, let's try to26000:20:00.480 --> 00:20:03.559uh keep these situations from happening,so that way, with the two of26100:20:03.640 --> 00:20:06.119Y'all decided to fly out one wayor the other, you know, you26200:20:06.160 --> 00:20:08.480can have a good time, enjoyeach other, enjoy the company, whatever,26300:20:08.559 --> 00:20:14.079and then you you never know whatmay happen. But again, that26400:20:14.160 --> 00:20:19.480ain't my business. Man. Ilove y'all, I swear to God.26500:20:19.519 --> 00:20:23.480I love your cousins and Camp Fosman. I love being a host of26600:20:23.480 --> 00:20:26.960currently under construction, and I lovebeing able to come talk to you all26700:20:27.160 --> 00:20:32.960like I do twice a week,Tuesdays and Fridays. Remember that. Now26800:20:33.720 --> 00:20:37.319this is season four of your favoriteepisodes, your favorite podcast in mine,26900:20:37.559 --> 00:20:42.960currently under construction. Listen. Rememberthe last episode, I said that I27000:20:44.039 --> 00:20:48.519was gonna bring up the topic ofUm. When did we start becoming UH27100:20:48.839 --> 00:20:52.839uncle's and AiN'ties? So let's let's, let's, let's, let's kind of27200:20:52.880 --> 00:21:00.160dive intoday right now, because I'mstill wigging out on the fact that Um,27300:21:00.640 --> 00:21:04.640outside of my own nephews and everything, I was actually uh out a27400:21:04.680 --> 00:21:11.480couple of weeks ago and its youngerguy may have been I don't know,27500:21:11.720 --> 00:21:15.880maybe mid to late twenties or whateverthe case may be. Maybe a little27600:21:15.880 --> 00:21:18.240old, maybe the early thirties,somewhere up in there. UH, he27700:21:18.279 --> 00:21:23.000was trying to get my test.He said say Um, Um, uh,27800:21:23.240 --> 00:21:29.920wait, what? But he wastalking to me. So, uh,27900:21:30.279 --> 00:21:33.000I guess. I guess if welook we can look at it as28000:21:33.039 --> 00:21:36.039a term of endearment. I wasn'tinsulted by it or anything like that.28100:21:36.519 --> 00:21:38.200It just kind of tripping me outbecause when I was a kid, you28200:21:38.240 --> 00:21:45.000know, we kind of referred toolder people as Um, pops, pop28300:21:47.279 --> 00:21:51.000and if it was a woman,we've looked at Um called them, you28400:21:51.039 --> 00:21:55.119know, that's that's mom, youknow, and stuff like that. But28500:21:55.200 --> 00:21:59.680it's flipped now. So we've gonefrom calling them uh, Popa POPs and28600:22:00.079 --> 00:22:06.359um or MOMS too, aunties anduncle. What if that shift come?28700:22:11.359 --> 00:22:15.000It's crazy, but I mean,Hey, you know, it's it's The28800:22:15.079 --> 00:22:18.640Times. We have to adjust andchange with the Times. But it's just28900:22:18.759 --> 00:22:21.279funny to me when I sit thereand think back on it. You know29000:22:22.720 --> 00:22:26.240that again, it's a term ofendearment, I guess. Also, if29100:22:26.240 --> 00:22:30.480we kind of look at it,it's Um a term of respect and respecting29200:22:30.519 --> 00:22:37.319their elders to a degree in theirown way. Um, okay, I29300:22:37.359 --> 00:22:40.839mean, I I can, Ican get with that, you know.29400:22:41.279 --> 00:22:48.200Um, I guess you never know. You know. So if that's how29500:22:48.240 --> 00:22:51.359you see me, if I'm fromout in the boutting, you see me29600:22:51.440 --> 00:22:55.359cousins and Ken folks and Uh you, you one of our younger listeners,29700:22:55.440 --> 00:22:57.839and you see me out and youcall me uncle, uncle, or whatever29800:22:57.839 --> 00:23:02.119the case may be. You know, what I ain't looking at is looking29900:23:02.119 --> 00:23:03.880at it. There's no form ofdisrespect in any shape form of fashion.30000:23:04.359 --> 00:23:10.599I'm all humbled and I'm Hon itthat you uh, that you look at30100:23:10.599 --> 00:23:18.680me that way. I appreciate Y'all, uh, I truly do, and30200:23:18.720 --> 00:23:22.640that's gonna do it for us hereon this uh episode of currently down the30300:23:22.680 --> 00:23:25.039construction. Remember, we do thisthing two times a week. We do30400:23:25.079 --> 00:23:26.880it on Tuesdays, we do iton Fridays, and I'm here forward and30500:23:26.920 --> 00:23:30.319I'm here for all the smoke thatwe have to give and we have to30600:23:30.359 --> 00:23:33.640bring it help on currently under construction. I love y'all, I swear I30700:23:33.720 --> 00:23:41.839do. Man, listen, continueto get ready. Three Phoenix Fire Radio.30800:23:41.279 --> 00:23:44.960It is coming, man. Weare getting this thing together. At30900:23:45.000 --> 00:23:48.920the time is winding down. Weare getting this thing together, man.31000:23:48.200 --> 00:23:52.319Look, it is going to beso amazing. I am so looking forward31100:23:52.359 --> 00:23:56.559to it, man. So Ihave my second date set, you know,31200:23:57.359 --> 00:24:02.599a programming set. So Friday nights. Friday nights is gonna be all31300:24:02.599 --> 00:24:06.799about the quiet storm. Oh,yeah, it's real. It's about that.31400:24:07.240 --> 00:24:11.920Yes, indeed, you ask forwhat you put in Fort. You31500:24:11.960 --> 00:24:15.920See. You see that you wantto here. So Fridays, which is31600:24:15.920 --> 00:24:21.200gonna be at night, Um,time frames gonna probably somewhere from nine,31700:24:22.279 --> 00:24:26.559maybe midnight or one, eight Mbut yeah, we're gonna, we're gonna31800:24:26.559 --> 00:24:32.960bring you the quiet storm. We'regonna bring you all of your good Um,31900:24:33.240 --> 00:24:37.039early two thousands, nineties, eightiesand maybe some of our seventies,32000:24:37.200 --> 00:24:41.240uh slow jams, and we're gonnagive it to you. We're gonna get32100:24:41.319 --> 00:24:44.480you in the mood, we're gonnaset you, we're gonna get your right32200:24:45.000 --> 00:24:48.200and we're just gonna um, we'regonna throw it back, we're gonna we're32300:24:48.200 --> 00:24:52.000gonna make it feel good. Yeah, man, I'm excited about it.32400:24:52.079 --> 00:24:56.200And again, Sunday is gonna BEWE'RE gonna get you ready for church.32500:24:56.240 --> 00:24:57.960We're gonna get you ready to go, uh, get your praise and your32600:24:57.960 --> 00:25:02.359worship bones, you know, SundayMornas you know, we're definitely getting ready32700:25:02.400 --> 00:25:08.079for that. Saturdays, Um,Saturdays look kind of like from what I'm32800:25:08.119 --> 00:25:11.720seeing, what I'm getting and everything, it looks like we're going to maybe32900:25:12.599 --> 00:25:22.440have a blues slash throwback R andB Day, something like that. Right33000:25:22.440 --> 00:25:26.799there. We're still it's still kindof fluidic right now as far as what33100:25:26.880 --> 00:25:30.400that's gonna be. But Um,this is what we're getting right now.33200:25:30.480 --> 00:25:33.119This is what we're probably trying tomove towards too. So, UM,33300:25:33.240 --> 00:25:37.079stay tuned. We're we'RE gonna,we're, we're gonna keep you updated on33400:25:37.160 --> 00:25:41.920that winding stays. I'm not surejust yet, but as soon as we33500:25:41.960 --> 00:25:44.640figure out what we're going to doon those on that particular day, will33600:25:44.640 --> 00:25:48.039definitely get with you on that.But for sure, Friday nights, quiet33700:25:48.039 --> 00:25:56.519storm, Sunday morning praise and worthship. Phoenix Fire Radio Coming Three UH take33800:25:56.559 --> 00:26:03.480your local listings and Yeuh UH APPsfor whenever it particularly come out. I'm33900:26:03.519 --> 00:26:10.640going to sometime during the holiday season. We're gonna give you a preview.34000:26:11.359 --> 00:26:17.640Uh. So we're looking out forthat. Phoenix fire radio coming and again34100:26:17.640 --> 00:26:19.240I want to thank you all forjoining us here. I'm currently under construction.34200:26:19.880 --> 00:26:22.880Um, listen to US wherever youget your podcast, wherever you listen34300:26:22.920 --> 00:26:26.960to your podcast, you can listento us on any of your platforms.34400:26:27.519 --> 00:26:33.480Or our website itself, under construction, DOT COM UM, or on our34500:26:33.960 --> 00:26:37.839our alternate site for sounder, DOTFM Um. Or you can listen to34600:26:37.920 --> 00:26:41.319us on wherever you get your podcasts, of on one of our several different34700:26:41.319 --> 00:26:47.039platforms. Um. You can listento us on apple podcasts, Google podcasts,34800:26:47.160 --> 00:26:52.039spotify, overcast, podetcast, Iheard radio, deezer, radio,34900:26:52.160 --> 00:26:56.839Public Castro many, many others.Again, you can listen to us on35000:26:56.400 --> 00:27:03.000apple podcasts, Google podcasts, bythe Deezer, I heart radio. UH,35100:27:03.359 --> 00:27:10.319podcast, one, Castro cast box, many many others. All right,35200:27:10.559 --> 00:27:11.440but I'M gonna get on up outof here. I got I got35300:27:11.480 --> 00:27:14.720some things I need to do cousinsin Ken Folk. So I'M gonna get35400:27:14.720 --> 00:27:17.079on up out of here. But, uh, I'm gonna Talk to you35500:27:17.119 --> 00:27:22.039all on Tuesday. So let's gonnaBring this thing in and put it together35600:27:22.039 --> 00:27:26.079and do like we always do.Um, takes the village to put this35700:27:26.119 --> 00:27:29.680thing together, and you are allmy village. Or we're going to continue35800:27:29.680 --> 00:27:32.960to keep building this thing together,you and I, step by step,35900:27:33.240 --> 00:27:37.319one break at a time. Currentlyunder construction and I'm gonna Talk to you36000:27:37.359 --> 00:27:41.559all in a few days. Y'Allhave a wonderful weekend. I love y'All.36100:27:41.039 --> 00:27:44.799Peace. Season four currently under construction