Its my Birthday/ Lets get back to love

WEBVTT100:00:01.600 --> 00:00:07.799And we're back. We're back,second episode season four, for your favorite200:00:07.799 --> 00:00:12.000episode and Mine, currently under construction. I am your host. You already300:00:12.080 --> 00:00:14.759know who this is. Thank youso much for joining us on today.400:00:15.359 --> 00:00:22.600It is Friday, September, two, twenty twenty two. And for those500:00:22.600 --> 00:00:26.800of you that for those of youwho know, you know. For those600:00:26.800 --> 00:00:31.879of you who know, you know. For those of you who know,700:00:32.840 --> 00:00:37.719you already know. You know whattoday is. You know what to day.800:00:39.479 --> 00:00:46.039If you don't know what the dayis, take a guess and if900:00:46.079 --> 00:00:49.840you hadn't figured it out, I'lllet you definitely know in a few minutes1000:00:49.840 --> 00:00:53.359before but before I do, Iwant to take this time, you know,1100:00:53.520 --> 00:00:57.159to to thank you all for joiningus. Health carerently under construction.1200:00:57.479 --> 00:01:00.000I want to thank you all foryou all continue to support us, uh,1300:01:00.119 --> 00:01:03.680right here until our new season.Um, we're so grateful to have1400:01:03.840 --> 00:01:07.560you all. We're so grateful thoseof our new listeners that have joined us1500:01:08.079 --> 00:01:15.560um man. Look even between,you know, while we've been on hiatus,1600:01:15.760 --> 00:01:19.719so to speak, when you allhave been getting a replace some of1700:01:19.719 --> 00:01:23.959our favorite episodes from season three,you know we've had a bunch of new1800:01:23.000 --> 00:01:26.560listeners have joined us. So wewant to say welcome you all, welcome1900:01:26.599 --> 00:01:30.799to currently under construction, welcome toseason four, welcome to the to the2000:01:30.799 --> 00:01:36.959show, and we want to thankyou when to thank you for for joining2100:01:37.040 --> 00:01:40.480us here on the vibe. Youknow that is currently under construction, your2200:01:40.519 --> 00:01:42.799favorite podcast and mine. But again, now you know, I was going2300:01:42.840 --> 00:01:46.680to kind of get into it tosay what day is it. But what2400:01:46.760 --> 00:02:00.799day is it? Oh, toto sure, sure shooter and people,2500:02:02.640 --> 00:02:07.719that's right, that's right. It'syour boy's birthday. Happy Birthday to your2600:02:07.799 --> 00:02:12.319favorite host in mind, meet myselfand I, man, I am so2700:02:12.520 --> 00:02:16.960grateful, so blessed that God hasallowed me to see this day. Um,2800:02:17.199 --> 00:02:23.000that, man, it's just ablessing to Um have another trip around2900:02:23.080 --> 00:02:30.560the sun completed. Um. Somuch has happened Um in this last three3000:02:30.960 --> 00:02:38.479and sixty five days. Um,Chapter Forty was was pretty was pretty touch3100:02:38.560 --> 00:02:43.439you go here and there. WasPretty up and down. But I'm definitely3200:02:43.719 --> 00:02:49.879so grateful and so blessed Um forthis upcoming new chapter, uh, in3300:02:50.000 --> 00:02:53.719my life, that God has blessedme with, Um, New Beginnings,3400:02:53.120 --> 00:02:59.639Um, new memories to be made, new goals to be accomplished, Um,3500:03:00.080 --> 00:03:10.599just more things in life to do. Uh New, Um, new3600:03:10.719 --> 00:03:16.639issues that I may have had tobe resolved, Um, just a whole3700:03:16.719 --> 00:03:21.599lot of new things that I've seen. I'm looking forward to UH in my3800:03:21.759 --> 00:03:28.039life in this new chapter, Um, but it all starts today, my3900:03:28.199 --> 00:03:31.000birthday. Thank you for all ofthose who have already sent the birthday shouts4000:03:31.000 --> 00:03:38.280out to me, whether it's byemail, by text, by cash ap,4100:03:38.800 --> 00:03:42.879by telephone called smoke signals, thoseof you who put up The bat4200:03:43.000 --> 00:03:46.960light for me. Just wanna man, I love y'All. I swear I4300:03:47.039 --> 00:03:52.199love y'All. Thank you so muchfor for the birthday shouts out to support,4400:03:52.599 --> 00:03:54.759just, uh, just for showinglove the way that you all do.4500:03:55.000 --> 00:03:58.919You know, that's that's one ofthe biggest things right there, the4600:03:59.479 --> 00:04:02.199that the love of that you allshow uh and continue to show me here,4700:04:03.000 --> 00:04:06.520Um, not just as your hostof currently under construction, but just4800:04:06.680 --> 00:04:13.039me as a person and as Icontinue to evolve and grow. Um.4900:04:13.479 --> 00:04:15.319Again, Y'all know me. Mywhole thing is to continue to work on5000:04:16.439 --> 00:04:20.519being better today than I was yesterdayand to be better tomorrow than I am5100:04:20.639 --> 00:04:26.240today. and Um, by thegrace of God, I just want to5200:04:26.560 --> 00:04:29.720you know, just say that I'mI'm grateful. I'm not where I was,5300:04:29.800 --> 00:04:31.279I may not be where I wantto be just yet, but I'm5400:04:31.319 --> 00:04:34.319grateful to where I was because weall know, and I said all the5500:04:34.439 --> 00:04:40.560time, progress is still progress,regardless of how slow or fast, how5600:04:40.759 --> 00:04:44.480great or small it is. Aslong as you continue to keep moving and5700:04:44.560 --> 00:04:50.920pressing forward, it is progress,no doubt about that. Man, just5800:04:51.480 --> 00:04:58.040so grateful to the People God putin my life, the Um, the5900:04:58.199 --> 00:05:03.800people that he removed from my lifeand just the doors that God is opening6000:05:03.920 --> 00:05:10.720right now, now, today,on my birthday, I wanted to I6100:05:10.839 --> 00:05:16.000heard a song the other day thatUm started me to thinking, and that's6200:05:16.040 --> 00:05:21.720something that I think that we needto get back to. Um. We6300:05:21.839 --> 00:05:28.560need to get back to love.We need to get back to love people,6400:05:30.079 --> 00:05:35.839love for your fellow man, lovefor your family, love for your6500:05:35.920 --> 00:05:45.319neighbor, love for your brothers andsisters, love for your community, most6600:05:45.399 --> 00:05:51.399importantly, love for yourself. Well, Oh, what you mean? I6700:05:51.480 --> 00:05:54.560mean? I mean, I meangive it to love, how I mean6800:05:57.079 --> 00:05:58.920I love, how I love.You know, I know most of us6900:05:58.959 --> 00:06:00.199are probably sitting and thinking right O. Well, I love everybody, you7000:06:00.279 --> 00:06:04.439know. But we need to getback to it, because love is a7100:06:04.600 --> 00:06:09.319very simple thing. It's not justthe words, it's not a fool out7200:06:09.360 --> 00:06:13.279of word. It's just not somethingthat we feel that makes us feel all7300:06:13.720 --> 00:06:17.199quickly in our warm and fuzzy insideand all of that right there. You7400:06:17.279 --> 00:06:19.639know, that love feeling that youget and get chest or in the pit7500:06:19.680 --> 00:06:28.079of your stomach or whatnot. Butlove is an action. Love is an7600:06:28.240 --> 00:06:31.199action, it's something that you do, is something that we do. We7700:06:31.360 --> 00:06:40.040as people, we as human beings, that we do and we need to7800:06:40.079 --> 00:06:45.079get back to that. Love isa very, very simple thing to do.7900:06:48.120 --> 00:06:53.319We need to get back to takingthe time to love each other.8000:06:53.360 --> 00:07:01.600Man, I each day that Imay scroll through social media or on the8100:07:01.800 --> 00:07:08.040news or something of that particular nature, I just see so much hate,8200:07:10.360 --> 00:07:15.920so much hate, and I'm startingto see a whole lot more of and8300:07:15.079 --> 00:07:18.759and and I'm disturbed by it andI'm actually going to do an episode I'm8400:07:18.759 --> 00:07:24.079currently under construction about this specific solelyand specifically to this particular type. But8500:07:24.079 --> 00:07:30.040I'm starting to see a whole lotof hate from black men toward black women8600:07:32.040 --> 00:07:39.120and I'm appollered by that. Thatjust rubs me completely the wrong way.8700:07:39.160 --> 00:07:44.199I mean just just in every cornercrevices of my soul. It rubs me8800:07:44.319 --> 00:07:47.680the wrong way, just for thehate and the victory. All I'm starting8900:07:47.720 --> 00:07:56.720to see more and more of fromblack men toward black women. The Hell,9000:08:01.279 --> 00:08:11.600the hell. I saw um avideo recently from this little guy on9100:08:11.360 --> 00:08:16.519talking about, uh yeah, wedon't like black women. You know,9200:08:16.000 --> 00:08:20.160you heard the saying, if itain't snowing, we ain't going. And9300:08:20.360 --> 00:08:26.360he goes on to say a wholebunch of more UH foolishness. But okay,9400:08:28.639 --> 00:08:31.800you're entitled to like whatever it isthat you like. You're entitled to9500:08:31.920 --> 00:08:35.759love whoever you want to love,date whoever you want to date, and9600:08:35.000 --> 00:08:39.559so forth. You're entitled to doall of that, but in the process9700:08:39.639 --> 00:08:46.120of that, it's a it's completelyunnecessary for you to step on the mean9800:08:46.600 --> 00:08:56.639and undermine those that you don't wantto be involved with. What good is9900:08:56.679 --> 00:08:58.360it? What? What? Whatare you getting out of it? For?10000:09:00.200 --> 00:09:05.080H You're saying that you don't wantto date or be with a black10100:09:05.200 --> 00:09:09.080woman, but you want to stepon her and dog her in the process10200:09:09.120 --> 00:09:16.200of doing so. Where does thatcome from? What? What? What10300:09:16.279 --> 00:09:22.039does that mean? How? How? How does that make it make sense,10400:09:22.039 --> 00:09:24.440because that man if there ain't mathand to me in any shape,10500:09:24.480 --> 00:09:31.679for more fashion, and that's nothingI mean by we'll say we got to10600:09:31.679 --> 00:09:35.960get back to being to love.I mean because it just it's it.10700:09:35.960 --> 00:09:39.480It appaused me and it really bothersme. Just that's the love that I10800:09:39.720 --> 00:09:45.879see, I mean the the hateand victory all that I see coming from10900:09:45.919 --> 00:09:52.840so many black men to black women. Sister, Um, just so recently,11000:09:52.840 --> 00:09:58.879a sister that was a therapist,you know, Um, because some11100:09:58.120 --> 00:10:03.279men didn't like her delivery, youknow, and stating that they needed to11200:10:03.679 --> 00:10:09.440deal with their issues or childhood Traumas, that they needed to go to therapy.11300:10:11.000 --> 00:10:15.639And since they didn't want to hearthat, I like that, they11400:10:15.799 --> 00:10:26.879went as far as to Um,getting her fired. Yeah, getting her11500:10:26.960 --> 00:10:37.480fired, which is the craziest thing, because they didn't like her delivery.11600:10:41.960 --> 00:10:52.000Yeah, yeah, but they onlyset her up for a great comeback.11700:10:52.759 --> 00:10:54.639They only set her up to beable to be released from the people.11800:10:54.679 --> 00:10:58.000That what she was working for.She she can go into private practice on11900:10:58.080 --> 00:11:01.720our own now and do our ownthings. But, gentlemen, if you12000:11:01.799 --> 00:11:05.720didn't want to, if you didn'tdidn't like her delivery, why? Why?12100:11:05.759 --> 00:11:11.600It cost her her her business orher means of being able to provide12200:11:11.639 --> 00:11:18.039for her family. Makes no sense. But this is what we're seeing more12300:11:18.080 --> 00:11:22.559and more of. But that sisteris gonna be already. That sister is12400:11:22.639 --> 00:11:24.159gonna, Gona, gonna come back. That the commack that she's gonna have.12500:11:24.519 --> 00:11:28.879It's gonna be troum it's gonna beGreat. It is going to be12600:11:28.039 --> 00:11:43.440great. But again for me isthat's unnecessary. Why? Because you didn't12700:11:43.480 --> 00:11:46.039like what she said in how shesaid. Now it's a problem with you12800:11:46.480 --> 00:11:50.279and a great number of view togo forth and look her up and somebody12900:11:50.399 --> 00:11:54.519put her information, her name,her address and her allegers for her place13000:11:54.600 --> 00:11:58.519of business, all on uh,you know, the Internet and everything like13100:11:58.639 --> 00:12:03.320that. Something could have happened toher. But again, that's that's a13200:12:03.399 --> 00:12:07.559different topic. That's something else I'mgoing to definitely revisit in another episode,13300:12:07.600 --> 00:12:11.879and that episode is going to becoming. So if it's not our next13400:12:11.919 --> 00:12:16.600episode, it would definitely be fourthepisode, episode four. I am going13500:12:16.679 --> 00:12:20.759to deep dive into that. Iam going to jump head first into that.13600:12:20.919 --> 00:12:22.799We're gonna get to the bottom andI need to I need to ask13700:12:22.879 --> 00:12:31.639the question why. Why is thatwe are seeing so many black men hating,13800:12:31.200 --> 00:12:35.879dogging, undermining, despising, whateveradjective that you want to use,13900:12:37.320 --> 00:12:41.240are black women. That's gonna becausethat is going to be questioned. I14000:12:41.279 --> 00:12:46.559am going to pose. But rightnow we need to get back to love.14100:12:48.440 --> 00:12:50.519We need to get back to helpingeach other, we need to get14200:12:50.559 --> 00:12:56.120back to taking care of each other, we need to get back to serving14300:12:56.159 --> 00:13:03.279each other, we need to getback to love and own each other because14400:13:03.320 --> 00:13:07.320at the end of the day,regardless whether it's by blood or not,14500:13:07.720 --> 00:13:16.039we are family. We are stillfamily, no matter how you look at14600:13:16.080 --> 00:13:18.879it, no matter how you spendit, whether your blood your blood related14700:13:18.039 --> 00:13:26.320or not. Our Skin may lookdifferent on the outside, eye color may14800:13:26.360 --> 00:13:31.679look different, our hair texture maybe different, but we're still family.14900:13:35.559 --> 00:13:37.799The same blood runs through my veins, runs through you, through each and15000:13:37.840 --> 00:13:46.679every less one of your veins.The genetic code may be different as far15100:13:46.759 --> 00:13:50.440as who help them create me,but still that doesn't mean that we're not15200:13:50.559 --> 00:14:01.240family. And family loves each other, family helps each other, family takes15300:14:01.320 --> 00:14:11.600care of each other, family upliftseach other and more, and we got15400:14:11.720 --> 00:14:18.039to get back to that h wegotta get back to loving each other.15500:14:22.240 --> 00:14:24.759This world needs love right now morethan anything, because there's so much hate15600:14:24.799 --> 00:14:35.000in it. And how can yousit there and see it day in and15700:14:35.159 --> 00:14:43.440day out and it not bother you? It bothers me completely each day that15800:14:43.519 --> 00:14:46.519I see it. It does somethingto my heart, it does something to15900:14:46.600 --> 00:14:58.240my soul each day that I seeit. Let's not just talk about it,16000:14:58.360 --> 00:15:01.720my people, let's be about it. Yeah, let's get back to16100:15:01.799 --> 00:15:18.200love. Let's get back to love. Let's get back to it. We16200:15:18.360 --> 00:15:24.279deserve it as a people, wedeserve it as a community, we deserve16300:15:24.360 --> 00:15:33.279it as individuals. Let's step upand do it, but it's gonna Start.16400:15:33.320 --> 00:15:37.600It has to start with us andto start with each of US individually.16500:15:37.519 --> 00:15:41.440So we need to we each needto take a look inside inside of16600:15:41.639 --> 00:15:48.840us, inside the core of us, and find that and began to live16700:15:48.960 --> 00:16:02.879that and began to spread that.That is my message to you today,16800:16:03.039 --> 00:16:10.519on my birthday. Let's get backto love, people. Let's get back16900:16:10.559 --> 00:16:12.919to it. So much of itout here for us to give, and17000:16:14.000 --> 00:16:17.559let's give it. Let's give it, let's spread it, because it is17100:16:17.639 --> 00:16:22.799much needed. Today's episode is notgonna be too long. I'm sorry,17200:16:22.879 --> 00:16:25.799Y'all, but the next episode.We're gonna get in it, we're gonna17300:16:25.840 --> 00:16:27.840get all the way in it,but today is my birthday. Today is17400:16:27.919 --> 00:16:33.200my day. Today is the daythat I thank God for that. He17500:16:33.360 --> 00:16:37.960brought me here into this world andhe looked down at me. He's like,17600:16:37.080 --> 00:16:45.399I got some work for this oneright here. Grateful forward, grateful17700:16:45.440 --> 00:16:48.480to God that God has allowed meto see and experience good and bad,17800:16:49.639 --> 00:16:53.399and I'm just grateful for everything thatGod is going to do with me,17900:16:53.799 --> 00:17:00.320to me and through me. Iwant to take the time right now to18000:17:00.440 --> 00:17:04.480thank each and never last one ofyou once again for the birthday love,18100:17:06.079 --> 00:17:11.519the birthday shouts outs, just forbeing who you are and just for showing18200:17:11.599 --> 00:17:15.319down your love on me. Thankyou, thank you, thank you.18300:17:15.680 --> 00:17:21.319I love you all. I loveyou all again. Thank you all.18400:17:21.359 --> 00:17:23.039From welcome. Thank you all forjoining us here on currently down the construction.18500:17:23.039 --> 00:17:27.680We're gonna do this thing again twotimes a week on Tuesdays and Friday's.18600:17:27.799 --> 00:17:32.599Tuesdays and Fridayda every Tuesday and everyFriday. We're gonna do this thing18700:17:32.759 --> 00:17:38.000right here for you and for us. Our next episode is coming up Tuesday,18800:17:38.079 --> 00:17:41.559so be on the lookout forward.It's gonna definitely be there and I'm18900:17:41.599 --> 00:17:45.640gonna debt. We're gonna definitely deepdive into this topic. Like I said,19000:17:45.680 --> 00:17:48.559it's going to either be the nextepisode of the episode after that.19100:17:48.680 --> 00:17:55.160We're definitely gonna dive dive into that. The whole deal about why are we19200:17:55.279 --> 00:17:59.799seeing so much virtual and hate towardsour black women from black men. We're19300:17:59.799 --> 00:18:03.119Gonn definitely get into that. I'mgonna Dave, I'm gonna deep dive heavy19400:18:03.200 --> 00:18:06.920into that. So be on thelookout for that. But remember, you19500:18:07.000 --> 00:18:11.079can contact us here on the podcastat uh under construction, nineteen seventy four19600:18:11.160 --> 00:18:15.839at Yahoo DOT com. That's underconstruction. Nineteen seventy four AT YAHOO DOT19700:18:15.880 --> 00:18:21.039com. You can email us forany topic, any subject that you may19800:18:21.119 --> 00:18:25.000want to hear discussed about, talkedabout, or if you want to possibly19900:18:25.160 --> 00:18:26.880be a guest on the show,let us know. Again, we have20000:18:26.960 --> 00:18:30.559several guests coming up this season,so be on the lookout for that.20100:18:30.880 --> 00:18:33.440You can listen to US and whereveryou're listen to or get your podcast,20200:18:33.559 --> 00:18:38.039you can follow us and listen tous on apple podcasts, Google podcast,20300:18:38.160 --> 00:18:45.160spotify, overcast, pocket cast radio, Public Uh deezer Um. I heart20400:18:45.279 --> 00:18:49.680radio. Podcast one, Castro andmany, many others. Again, you20500:18:49.799 --> 00:18:56.119can listen to us on apple podcasts, Google podcasts, spotify, overcast,20600:18:56.279 --> 00:19:02.480pocketcast, radio, public Um,spotty. I mean, Deez are I20700:19:02.640 --> 00:19:10.640heart radio, Castro, podcast one, many, many others. So go20800:19:10.720 --> 00:19:15.559out there and share, uh,share the PODCAST, subscribe, if you20900:19:15.640 --> 00:19:18.519haven't done so already, to sharewith a friend, tell them about the21000:19:18.559 --> 00:19:21.799word of mouth. And y'all justget on board this train because, remember,21100:19:21.839 --> 00:19:23.240because we're on this together. Thisis a family thing, cousins and21200:19:23.279 --> 00:19:27.720King folks, and Y'all know this. We are family. Again, I21300:19:27.799 --> 00:19:32.680want to thank you all again forthe birthday. So we're sitting here taking21400:19:32.680 --> 00:19:36.559the time out of your day tojoin me in this episode on my birthday.21500:19:36.880 --> 00:19:40.759Uh, I'M gonna go turn up, I am going to go turn21600:19:40.880 --> 00:19:44.599up, I am gonna turn itup and I'm going to enjoy this day21700:19:44.640 --> 00:19:48.119and I need you all to enjoythis day with me. So, Hey,21800:19:48.440 --> 00:19:49.799let's go do this thing, let'sgo do the damn thing, you21900:19:49.880 --> 00:19:55.480and I together, and that's gonnaget it in. Let's get it in22000:19:55.640 --> 00:19:59.119with me, and we're gonna continueto keep doing this thing, we're gonna22100:19:59.160 --> 00:20:03.160keep building it together. There youand I, and we're gonna build this22200:20:03.240 --> 00:20:04.920thing together. You and I step, I step, one brick at a22300:20:06.000 --> 00:20:10.160time. Currently under construction. Ilove you all. I talked to you22400:20:10.240 --> 00:20:15.119in a few days. It's mybirthday, y'all. I love you and22500:20:15.200 --> 00:20:18.319we'll talk to you soon. Takeit easy, peace,