Its my Birthday/ Lets get back to love

0:01 And we're back. We're back, second episode season four, for your favorite episode and Mine, currently under construction. I am your host. You already know who this is. Thank you so much for joining us on today. It is Friday, September, two, twenty twenty two. And for those of you that for those of you who know, you know. For those of you who know, you know. For those of you who know, you already know. You know what today is. You know what to day. If you don't know what the day is, take a guess and if you hadn't figured it out, I'll let you definitely know in a few minutes before but before I do, I want to take this time, you know, to to thank you all for joining us. Health carerently under construction.

0:57 I want to thank you all for you all continue to support us, uh, right here until our new season. Um, we're so grateful to have you all. We're so grateful those of our new listeners that have joined us um man. Look even between, you know, while we've been on hiatus, so to speak, when you all have been getting a replace some of our favorite episodes from season three, you know we've had a bunch of new listeners have joined us. So we want to say welcome you all, welcome to currently under construction, welcome to season four, welcome to the to the show, and we want to thank you when to thank you for for joining us here on the vibe. You know that is currently under construction, your favorite podcast and mine. But again, now you know, I was going to kind of get into it to say what day is it. But what day is it? Oh, to to sure, sure shooter and people, that's right, that's right. It's your boy's birthday. Happy Birthday to your favorite host in mind, meet myself and I, man, I am so grateful, so blessed that God has allowed me to see this day. Um, that, man, it's just a blessing to Um have another trip around the sun completed. Um. So much has happened Um in this last three

2:30 and sixty five days. Um, Chapter Forty was was pretty was pretty touch you go here and there. Was Pretty up and down. But I'm definitely so grateful and so blessed Um for this upcoming new chapter, uh, in my life, that God has blessed me with, Um, New Beginnings, Um, new memories to be made, new goals to be accomplished, Um, just more things in life to do. Uh New, Um, new issues that I may have had to be resolved, Um, just a whole lot of new things that I've seen. I'm looking forward to UH in my life in this new chapter, Um, but it all starts today, my birthday. Thank you for all of those who have already sent the birthday shouts out to me, whether it's by email, by text, by cash ap, by telephone called smoke signals, those of you who put up The bat light for me. Just wanna man, I love y'All. I swear I love y'All. Thank you so much for for the birthday shouts out to support, just, uh, just for showing love the way that you all do.

3:55 You know, that's that's one of the biggest things right there, the that the love of that you all show uh and continue to show me here, Um, not just as your host of currently under construction, but just me as a person and as I continue to evolve and grow. Um. Again, Y'all know me. My whole thing is to continue to work on being better today than I was yesterday and to be better tomorrow than I am today. and Um, by the grace of God, I just want to you know, just say that I'm I'm grateful. I'm not where I was, I may not be where I want to be just yet, but I'm grateful to where I was because we all know, and I said all the time, progress is still progress, regardless of how slow or fast, how great or small it is. As long as you continue to keep moving and pressing forward, it is progress, no doubt about that. Man, just so grateful to the People God put in my life, the Um, the people that he removed from my life and just the doors that God is opening right now, now, today, on my birthday, I wanted to I heard a song the other day that Um started me to thinking, and that's something that I think that we need to get back to. Um. We need to get back to love. We need to get back to love people,

5:30 love for your fellow man, love for your family, love for your neighbor, love for your brothers and sisters, love for your community, most importantly, love for yourself. Well, Oh, what you mean? I mean? I mean, I mean give it to love, how I mean I love, how I love. You know, I know most of us are probably sitting and thinking right O. Well, I love everybody, you know. But we need to get back to it, because love is a very simple thing. It's not just the words, it's not a fool out of word. It's just not something that we feel that makes us feel all quickly in our warm and fuzzy inside and all of that right there. You know, that love feeling that you get and get chest or in the pit of your stomach or whatnot. But love is an action. Love is an action, it's something that you do, is something that we do. We as people, we as human beings, that we do and we need to get back to that. Love is a very, very simple thing to do.

6:48 We need to get back to taking the time to love each other. Man, I each day that I may scroll through social media or on the news or something of that particular nature, I just see so much hate, so much hate, and I'm starting to see a whole lot more of and and and I'm disturbed by it and I'm actually going to do an episode I'm currently under construction about this specific solely and specifically to this particular type. But I'm starting to see a whole lot of hate from black men toward black women and I'm appollered by that. That just rubs me completely the wrong way.

7:39 I mean just just in every corner crevices of my soul. It rubs me the wrong way, just for the hate and the victory. All I'm starting to see more and more of from black men toward black women. The Hell, the hell. I saw um a video recently from this little guy on talking about, uh yeah, we don't like black women. You know, you heard the saying, if it ain't snowing, we ain't going. And he goes on to say a whole bunch of more UH foolishness. But okay, you're entitled to like whatever it is that you like. You're entitled to love whoever you want to love, date whoever you want to date, and so forth. You're entitled to do all of that, but in the process of that, it's a it's completely unnecessary for you to step on the mean and undermine those that you don't want to be involved with. What good is it? What? What? What are you getting out of it? For?

9:00 H You're saying that you don't want to date or be with a black woman, but you want to step on her and dog her in the process of doing so. Where does that come from? What? What? What does that mean? How? How? How does that make it make sense, because that man if there ain't math and to me in any shape, for more fashion, and that's nothing I mean by we'll say we got to get back to being to love. I mean because it just it's it. It appaused me and it really bothers me. Just that's the love that I see, I mean the the hate and victory all that I see coming from so many black men to black women. Sister, Um, just so recently, a sister that was a therapist, you know, Um, because some men didn't like her delivery, you know, and stating that they needed to deal with their issues or childhood Traumas, that they needed to go to therapy.

10:11 And since they didn't want to hear that, I like that, they went as far as to Um, getting her fired. Yeah, getting her fired, which is the craziest thing, because they didn't like her delivery. Yeah, yeah, but they only set her up for a great comeback.

10:52 They only set her up to be able to be released from the people. That what she was working for. She she can go into private practice on our own now and do our own things. But, gentlemen, if you didn't want to, if you didn't didn't like her delivery, why? Why? It cost her her her business or her means of being able to provide for her family. Makes no sense. But this is what we're seeing more and more of. But that sister is gonna be already. That sister is gonna, Gona, gonna come back. That the commack that she's gonna have. It's gonna be troum it's gonna be Great. It is going to be great. But again for me is that's unnecessary. Why? Because you didn't like what she said in how she said. Now it's a problem with you and a great number of view to go forth and look her up and somebody put her information, her name, her address and her allegers for her place of business, all on uh, you know, the Internet and everything like that. Something could have happened to her. But again, that's that's a different topic. That's something else I'm going to definitely revisit in another episode, and that episode is going to be coming. So if it's not our next episode, it would definitely be fourth episode, episode four. I am going to deep dive into that. I am going to jump head first into that.

12:20 We're gonna get to the bottom and I need to I need to ask the question why. Why is that we are seeing so many black men hating, dogging, undermining, despising, whatever adjective that you want to use, are black women. That's gonna because that is going to be questioned. I am going to pose. But right now we need to get back to love. We need to get back to helping each other, we need to get back to taking care of each other, we need to get back to serving each other, we need to get back to love and own each other because at the end of the day, regardless whether it's by blood or not, we are family. We are still family, no matter how you look at it, no matter how you spend it, whether your blood your blood related or not. Our Skin may look different on the outside, eye color may look different, our hair texture may be different, but we're still family.

13:35 The same blood runs through my veins, runs through you, through each and every less one of your veins. The genetic code may be different as far as who help them create me, but still that doesn't mean that we're not family. And family loves each other, family helps each other, family takes care of each other, family uplifts each other and more, and we got to get back to that h we gotta get back to loving each other.

14:22 This world needs love right now more than anything, because there's so much hate in it. And how can you sit there and see it day in and day out and it not bother you? It bothers me completely each day that I see it. It does something to my heart, it does something to my soul each day that I see it. Let's not just talk about it, my people, let's be about it. Yeah, let's get back to love. Let's get back to love. Let's get back to it. We deserve it as a people, we deserve it as a community, we deserve it as individuals. Let's step up and do it, but it's gonna Start.

15:33 It has to start with us and to start with each of US individually. So we need to we each need to take a look inside inside of us, inside the core of us, and find that and began to live that and began to spread that. That is my message to you today, on my birthday. Let's get back to love, people. Let's get back to it. So much of it out here for us to give, and let's give it. Let's give it, let's spread it, because it is much needed. Today's episode is not gonna be too long. I'm sorry, Y'all, but the next episode. We're gonna get in it, we're gonna get all the way in it, but today is my birthday. Today is my day. Today is the day that I thank God for that. He brought me here into this world and he looked down at me. He's like, I got some work for this one right here. Grateful forward, grateful to God that God has allowed me to see and experience good and bad, and I'm just grateful for everything that God is going to do with me, to me and through me. I want to take the time right now to thank each and never last one of you once again for the birthday love,

17:06 the birthday shouts outs, just for being who you are and just for showing down your love on me. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I love you all. I love you all again. Thank you all. From welcome. Thank you all for joining us here on currently down the construction. We're gonna do this thing again two times a week on Tuesdays and Friday's. Tuesdays and Fridayda every Tuesday and every Friday. We're gonna do this thing right here for you and for us. Our next episode is coming up Tuesday, so be on the lookout forward. It's gonna definitely be there and I'm gonna debt. We're gonna definitely deep dive into this topic. Like I said, it's going to either be the next episode of the episode after that.

17:48 We're definitely gonna dive dive into that. The whole deal about why are we seeing so much virtual and hate towards our black women from black men. We're Gonn definitely get into that. I'm gonna Dave, I'm gonna deep dive heavy into that. So be on the lookout for that. But remember, you can contact us here on the podcast at uh under construction, nineteen seventy four at Yahoo DOT com. That's under construction. Nineteen seventy four AT YAHOO DOT com. You can email us for any topic, any subject that you may want to hear discussed about, talked about, or if you want to possibly be a guest on the show, let us know. Again, we have several guests coming up this season, so be on the lookout for that.

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19:36 Uh, I'M gonna go turn up, I am going to go turn up, I am gonna turn it up and I'm going to enjoy this day and I need you all to enjoy this day with me. So, Hey, let's go do this thing, let's go do the damn thing, you and I together, and that's gonna get it in. Let's get it in with me, and we're gonna continue to keep doing this thing, we're gonna keep building it together. There you and I, and we're gonna build this thing together. You and I step, I step, one brick at a time. Currently under construction. I love you all. I talked to you in a few days. It's my birthday, y'all. I love you and we'll talk to you soon. Take it easy, peace,