Narcissist..An inside Look

WEBVTT100:00:02.040 --> 00:00:04.160You know what time it is.Welcome, my people. Welcome, my200:00:04.280 --> 00:00:07.759people. Welcome. Do you knowwhat's episode of your favorite podcast and mine300:00:07.799 --> 00:00:11.119currently under construction? I am yourhosts, your cousin, you can't.400:00:11.119 --> 00:00:13.960Folks, you know what it is. Thank you all so much for joining500:00:14.039 --> 00:00:17.679us today. UH, man,it's a beautiful day outside. It's hot.600:00:17.760 --> 00:00:20.480Man, if you're out here andit's hate, please do all that700:00:20.519 --> 00:00:26.480you can, whatever you can staycool, stay hydrated, because there's no800:00:26.719 --> 00:00:30.559joke. got a hate advisor goingon over most of the country. So,900:00:31.039 --> 00:00:34.560cousins and King folks, Y'all becool out there. Y'All, do1000:00:34.719 --> 00:00:39.960your best to stay hydrated, staycool where, uh, you know,1100:00:40.119 --> 00:00:43.799keep yourself protective. You wouldn't knowwhether you need to wear sunscreen. You1200:00:43.840 --> 00:00:47.479know, some type of you be. You be protectant. UH, sleeves1300:00:47.479 --> 00:00:51.079over your arms, a hat onyour head, whatever you got to do.1400:00:51.439 --> 00:00:55.280Cousins and King folks, you twoladies won't get on out there and1500:00:55.280 --> 00:00:57.960and make sure that you get yourselfcovered, make sure that you're good.1600:00:58.479 --> 00:01:03.000So we don't need anybody having anytype of heat strokes, because this heat1700:01:03.200 --> 00:01:07.680is no joke. A hundred plusdegree weather looks like for the rest of1800:01:07.719 --> 00:01:11.799this week. So please be carefulout there. And you know there's a1900:01:11.840 --> 00:01:15.640heat advisory throughout the week. Soif you don't necessarily have to get out2000:01:15.640 --> 00:01:23.400there, any cousin can folks,stay inside. Don't do it. Don't2100:01:23.640 --> 00:01:26.319do it. Man. I'm gladyou all joined to decide to join us2200:01:26.319 --> 00:01:30.000again today. Man, I've gota great show lined up for you all2300:01:30.040 --> 00:01:36.359today. Say Look, Um,we've touched on this topic before, but2400:01:36.599 --> 00:01:40.280I'm gonna yeah, I'm bringing itback around again and we're gonna talk about2500:01:40.359 --> 00:01:42.319this one of my favorite, well, I'm not gonna say one of my2600:01:42.359 --> 00:01:47.959favorite topics, with a topic thata lot of people have asked me to2700:01:48.000 --> 00:01:51.799come revisit, asked me to bringback up, asked me to talk about2800:01:51.879 --> 00:01:59.599again. And I am talking aboutdealing with narcissists, dealing with people who,2900:02:00.079 --> 00:02:06.799mh are so into themselves, soall about them, they have complete3000:02:06.840 --> 00:02:14.159disregard for the feelings, the emotions, the lives, the wants, the3100:02:14.400 --> 00:02:21.960needs or anything of anyone outside ofthemselves. And I just know that someone,3200:02:21.960 --> 00:02:23.800you're sitting here, one of likewhat, do people out there really3300:02:23.800 --> 00:02:29.039exist? Yeah, they do,cousins and King folks, they out there.3400:02:29.879 --> 00:02:32.120They're out there and they look justlike me and you. Sometimes you3500:02:32.280 --> 00:02:37.879never know you're dealing with a narcissistuntil it's too late. Sometimes, I3600:02:37.919 --> 00:02:44.120mean, they disguised themselves and tobe so many different things, but you3700:02:44.159 --> 00:02:51.360don't see it or the understand ituntil it's too late. They tend to3800:02:52.520 --> 00:02:59.639Um Chuck blame at any given timeabout anything. They refused to believe at3900:02:59.639 --> 00:03:07.560all that they've done any wrong toanyone. In their minds it's your fault4000:03:08.400 --> 00:03:13.000or in their mind, well,I didn't do anything, that was all4100:03:13.080 --> 00:03:21.319you. Yeah, and a lotof times it's hard to understand the reason4200:03:21.479 --> 00:03:25.439they do some of the things thatthey do. Sometimes they talked. It's4300:03:25.439 --> 00:03:30.719it's really hard to understand and sometimesyou just won't understand. You know,4400:03:30.800 --> 00:03:36.000the difference between us and most,you know, people with a narcissistic mind4500:03:36.800 --> 00:03:42.599is that, Um, they willflip the script on you in a heartbeat4600:03:43.439 --> 00:03:46.159and you never see it coming.They're so smooth and Suave with their game.4700:03:47.479 --> 00:03:50.840And again, like I told youbefore, cousins are King folks.4800:03:51.240 --> 00:03:54.879It's not just men. There arewomen narcissist out there too, and they4900:03:54.919 --> 00:03:59.840are cold blooded with it. Y'All, hear me, they're cold with it.5000:04:00.000 --> 00:04:03.159I'm here to tell you, forYances don't know what they mean.5100:04:03.199 --> 00:04:09.360When I tell somebody cold with it, that means they they lit. Okay,5200:04:10.120 --> 00:04:13.560they lit with it a chord andy'all. But yeah, yeah,5300:04:13.719 --> 00:04:16.759I mean they just they don't careabout anybody. They don't care who they5400:04:16.800 --> 00:04:19.600hurt, they don't care who theystep on, as long as they get5500:04:19.600 --> 00:04:25.720what it is that they want.I have, Um, I knew someone5600:04:25.839 --> 00:04:30.839that I was dealing with, anarcissist that, you know, he um5700:04:30.920 --> 00:04:33.720for months, you know, hadthem believing that, you know, they5800:04:33.759 --> 00:04:41.480were in a relationship, you know, but when he um, I just5900:04:41.639 --> 00:04:46.720achieved his gold and whatever he gotout of it. You know, he6000:04:46.800 --> 00:04:49.399moved around, you know, andhe gave her the reason, like,6100:04:49.560 --> 00:04:53.800you know, hey, you know, Um, God told me it's time6200:04:53.839 --> 00:04:56.759to move on, that you knowthat I'm in the whole pattern and that6300:04:58.839 --> 00:05:02.959this ain't for. This ain't forand so she was confused by it and6400:05:03.000 --> 00:05:06.879everything. But, you know,he moved on and uh, he's out6500:05:06.879 --> 00:05:13.240there doing the most. Yeah,and it blew her mind because again,6600:05:13.399 --> 00:05:15.920for several months, you know,I don't even close to a year.6700:05:15.399 --> 00:05:19.000You know, they were, youknow, going heavy and hard with it,6800:05:19.079 --> 00:05:23.720and then all of a sudden hedid a whole u turn, you6900:05:23.759 --> 00:05:26.319know, and she couldn't understand why, or whatever the case may be,7000:05:26.399 --> 00:05:29.720thinking she did something wrong or howcould he turn it off? And you7100:05:29.759 --> 00:05:30.639know when she brought it to meand I had to let her know,7200:05:30.720 --> 00:05:34.000hey, you know, this isthe game that he's playing. Like,7300:05:34.040 --> 00:05:38.720what do you mean? Okay,Y'all, some of you fellas may not7400:05:38.839 --> 00:05:41.680like this. Some of Y'all maynot may maybe may not like it,7500:05:41.720 --> 00:05:45.279but you know, y'all, sitdown, buckle up. I'm about to7600:05:45.279 --> 00:05:50.920give you the game. You see, most narcissists, their whole deal is7700:05:54.920 --> 00:06:01.040it's you're a challenge and you're agame to them, and so once they7800:06:01.040 --> 00:06:04.839set out in your their target,then they're going to play whatever role is7900:06:04.959 --> 00:06:10.000necessary. They're gonna go to themoon with it and beyond. Or Trust8000:06:10.040 --> 00:06:12.439me, they're gonna go to themoon with it and beyond. Introduce you8100:06:12.480 --> 00:06:15.000the family, introduce you to thekids. You know, they're gonna go8200:06:15.040 --> 00:06:21.959all out until set game has beena challenge has been achieved in their minds.8300:06:23.319 --> 00:06:26.439Now they may hang around with itfor a little while longer but now,8400:06:26.480 --> 00:06:30.360at this particular point, there isno longer a challenge. So in8500:06:30.439 --> 00:06:35.519turn, what they do? Theymove around. Now I'm gonna step back8600:06:35.519 --> 00:06:39.639for a moment. Now. Thekey thing is about most narcissists is the8700:06:39.720 --> 00:06:46.199fact that they don't want things endingon your code. That's a problem for8800:06:46.240 --> 00:06:51.879them. They their their ego.The egotistical thoughts won't allow them to to8900:06:51.959 --> 00:06:58.319register into their mind. So thenthey become dismissive like things that you're telling9000:06:58.319 --> 00:07:00.120them. You tell them what Idon't want to do, expose, I9100:07:00.160 --> 00:07:01.639don't want to be with you.Then they become dismissive. They're like,9200:07:01.720 --> 00:07:04.560okay, we'll talk about it later, even though you told them that that9300:07:04.680 --> 00:07:08.600you're done. You, you,you, it's over. You don't want9400:07:08.600 --> 00:07:11.680to hear that. But in theirmind they're they're being dismissive to what you9500:07:11.759 --> 00:07:14.480just said because in their mind they'resaying that, oh, we'll just talk9600:07:14.519 --> 00:07:15.480about it later. You know,I'm gonna let you do what you're gonna9700:07:15.480 --> 00:07:20.240do for right now. We'll talkabout it later. The Ego won't let9800:07:20.240 --> 00:07:24.360that compute in their mind and theywon't let them let it roll with and9900:07:24.480 --> 00:07:30.000let it compute to them. Butuh again, moving forward with that.10000:07:30.560 --> 00:07:34.519You know, it has to endon their terms for them to say at10100:07:34.560 --> 00:07:38.680that moment that they're done with youor whatever. So now you're left,10200:07:39.000 --> 00:07:44.199you know, picking up the pieces. Now what most do, and and10300:07:44.439 --> 00:07:49.639it's not all, but what mostdo in turn after that, is they10400:07:49.680 --> 00:07:57.319will look back around. But youserious? Yeah, yeah, I am10500:07:57.399 --> 00:08:01.680serious. They will look back around. They will, in turn look back10600:08:01.680 --> 00:08:05.600around, not because they miss you, not because they care or still love10700:08:05.639 --> 00:08:09.120you. They'll look back around because, in their mind, according to them,10800:08:09.199 --> 00:08:15.160they want to see if the dooris still open or they're still a10900:08:15.319 --> 00:08:20.920crack in it somewhere. So unlessat that particular moment you shut it,11000:08:20.959 --> 00:08:26.839don't shut it down immediately, andyou give them any type of conversation,11100:08:26.399 --> 00:08:31.560whether it's a text message, whetherit's just a hello, and you hadn't11200:08:31.600 --> 00:08:37.759just shut it down, then thenin their mind game on they are ready.11300:08:37.799 --> 00:08:41.759They've crunk up again. So now, in their particular mind, whether11400:08:41.799 --> 00:08:46.639you're single or you have miss someone, in their mind, then they're gonna11500:08:46.720 --> 00:08:50.120say, I'm going to see howlong it's gonna take me to wish this11600:08:50.279 --> 00:08:56.039door back open again. Not thatthey want you, not that they love11700:08:56.080 --> 00:09:01.279you. Or anything, or they'remissing you. It's old in the game,11800:09:01.879 --> 00:09:05.519it's holding the game. I'm signinglike e a sports, e sports,11900:09:05.679 --> 00:09:09.000uh, that I'm not trying totrade mark y'all. I'm not trying12000:09:09.000 --> 00:09:13.480to infringe on what y'all got goingon or anything like that. Um Don't12100:09:13.480 --> 00:09:20.559see us. But no, seriously, seriously, this is exactly how they12200:09:20.679 --> 00:09:22.799roll. It's all that. It'sall in their game to them, in12300:09:22.840 --> 00:09:28.279their mind. So even if you'reinvolved with someone now, they'll come off12400:09:28.279 --> 00:09:31.960at first like hey, you knowwhether you you I'm so glad for you.12500:09:31.000 --> 00:09:35.240I'm happy for you. I'm reallyhappy that you that you found somebody12600:09:35.240 --> 00:09:37.720and you make happy. I knowI didn't do right in there anything,12700:09:37.759 --> 00:09:43.919but you know what, I'm happyfor you. But the whole time it's12800:09:45.000 --> 00:09:48.559running off in their mind. Thewhole time it's game on, because now12900:09:48.840 --> 00:09:54.639they're trying to see how they canjust stay there long enough and wedge their13000:09:54.720 --> 00:09:58.279way back in. They sort ofplay the same game that uh, people13100:10:00.039 --> 00:10:03.679eyes most of the guys that areput into the friends zone playing, because13200:10:03.679 --> 00:10:05.919you know, most guys that areput into the friends zone with the woman13300:10:05.960 --> 00:10:09.120that they have an interest in,they'll just hang around and try to see13400:10:09.240 --> 00:10:13.200if they just that right moment comealong to where you know they can ease13500:10:13.240 --> 00:10:16.080their way in, especially if thewoman is involved with somebody. You know13600:10:16.080 --> 00:10:18.799they're gonna be there. They'RE gonnabe that listing ear or whatever, and13700:10:18.840 --> 00:10:22.840they're just gonna hang around mole totry to get in. Well, this13800:10:22.919 --> 00:10:26.320is what this is what that narcissistgonna do. He's gonna hang around and13900:10:26.320 --> 00:10:28.799try to see if any issues.She's gonna throw the the jabs here there14000:10:28.799 --> 00:10:31.639to see how do you respond toit? About the person that you're with,14100:10:31.840 --> 00:10:33.240you know, and if you haveany issues, that he's gonna through14200:10:33.279 --> 00:10:35.120the Oh man, if that wasme, I wouldn't have done that.14300:10:35.159 --> 00:10:37.440Oh, you know what. Iknow they've been hurt, but hey,14400:10:37.559 --> 00:10:41.720don't you know, just, youknow, keep smiling and everything. You14500:10:41.759 --> 00:10:43.519know it's gonna be all right.But the whole time, it's the whole14600:10:43.559 --> 00:10:52.960setup. They're positioning themselves to bethere, they're positioning themselves to Um uh14700:10:52.159 --> 00:10:56.840continue own and again they're very patient. They're very good at playing the long14800:10:58.000 --> 00:11:03.120game. Yeah, again, thisthis may take months and they have the14900:11:03.200 --> 00:11:07.519patience forward. They're not gonna rushanything now. Some a little more,15000:11:07.679 --> 00:11:11.000you know, dramatic and a littlemore possessive and directing others. But most15100:11:11.039 --> 00:11:15.720of them, for the most part, they played a long game. It's15200:11:15.879 --> 00:11:18.720then play it. And then itdid. Throw a little japs here and15300:11:18.759 --> 00:11:24.399there and Um may say, Hey, you know what, I just wanted15400:11:24.440 --> 00:11:26.039to stop by. You know,they'll come by unannounced or, you know,15500:11:26.200 --> 00:11:28.799made up and called in the middleof the night while you sit there,15600:11:30.000 --> 00:11:31.600you know, laid up. Youknow, I'll snuggled up with your15700:11:31.639 --> 00:11:35.639your man or your woman and everything. They calling their thing and then they're15800:11:35.720 --> 00:11:37.600like, oh, I ain't meaningto call. I end up Butt Downing15900:11:37.639 --> 00:11:41.960you or uh, something of thatparticulation, knowing that's gonna Cause an issue16000:11:43.639 --> 00:11:52.080between you and your mate, thislittle sort of stuff like that. Yeah,16100:11:52.360 --> 00:11:56.000they throw it out there. They'lldo it real quick and now,16200:11:56.039 --> 00:11:58.919as soon as you know, thingsmay go one way or the other.16300:11:58.960 --> 00:12:01.320which then and they're talking about oryou have any doubts about who you will16400:12:01.440 --> 00:12:05.080you know, then here they come. Hey, you know I'm here for16500:12:05.159 --> 00:12:07.360you. Hey, but you knowwhat, you know I still love you.16600:12:07.440 --> 00:12:09.879I know I messed up with whatI did, but you know I16700:12:09.919 --> 00:12:13.039still love you, and everything andall the history between us. You know16800:12:13.159 --> 00:12:15.399it's supposed to be me and youin any way. Blah, blah,16900:12:15.440 --> 00:12:20.320blah, blah, blah, BlahBlah. And there they go. Now17000:12:20.360 --> 00:12:26.639they're trying to see if you getin now. Sometimes this works, a17100:12:26.639 --> 00:12:30.399lot of times it don't, butfor the most part in their minds it's17200:12:30.440 --> 00:12:33.559works. And even if at thatparticular moment and it don't, you don't,17300:12:33.600 --> 00:12:35.039they don't give in at that moment, they're still gonna try again,17400:12:35.080 --> 00:12:39.279they're still gonna keep themselves position right, because then they're gonna begin to use17500:12:39.360 --> 00:12:43.720things from your past or that theyknew about you, try to push buttons17600:12:43.720 --> 00:12:50.960and manipulate. They're greater manipulation,by the way, masters at it,17700:12:50.960 --> 00:12:56.960masters at it, but they'll uselittle things like that to to manipulate here17800:12:56.039 --> 00:13:03.159there, and then the next thingyou know they're back in there. You17900:13:03.240 --> 00:13:09.559may have broken up with that personand Um, y'all might have had um18000:13:09.600 --> 00:13:16.120a night or two here there.You know, of you know, we18100:13:16.240 --> 00:13:18.559we we're gonna say what that we'renot gonna talk about what that is.18200:13:18.639 --> 00:13:20.039But you know, we've grown folks, were grown cousins and knding folks.18300:13:20.120 --> 00:13:22.799You already know what I'm talking aboutit and you already know what I'm getting18400:13:22.840 --> 00:13:26.360there. Somebody ain't got to uhgoing on further. What's understood don't have18500:13:26.440 --> 00:13:33.960to be explained you. They getalready. So once that they've they've accomplished18600:13:33.960 --> 00:13:39.600that. So now you're sitting therethinking like okay, well, you know,18700:13:39.600 --> 00:13:41.039I'm gonna give us another chance.But in his mind like, okay,18800:13:41.080 --> 00:13:48.480you know what, this mission isaccomplished. I'm out. What they18900:13:48.519 --> 00:13:56.159out again. The whole thing wasn'tjust because they loved you or wanted to19000:13:56.200 --> 00:14:00.639be with you and be back withyou. In their mind it was all19100:14:00.720 --> 00:14:05.519part of the game. It don'tmake sense to us, but in their19200:14:05.639 --> 00:14:11.080minds it makes perfect sense and that'sall that matters to them at that moment.19300:14:13.000 --> 00:14:16.360We'll never see it, will neverwrap our minds around it, like19400:14:16.440 --> 00:14:18.879why, why would you go throughall that and do that? And I19500:14:18.919 --> 00:14:22.279didn't, you know, then startcooking for you again and did X,19600:14:22.399 --> 00:14:24.399Y Z or whatever whatnot, andwe didn't did what's not it doesn't matter19700:14:26.720 --> 00:14:30.919in their minds whether, uh,they begin to do things for you,19800:14:30.960 --> 00:14:33.320to get things out of you,whatever the case may be. In their19900:14:33.360 --> 00:14:37.720minds, mission has been accomplished.They have set out and been able to20000:14:37.759 --> 00:14:43.679do what it is that they wantedto do and you fell forward, Hook,20100:14:45.399 --> 00:14:50.480line and sinker. But we don'tsee it intil their last moment.20200:14:52.600 --> 00:14:54.840Sometimes we can see it from thejump. And if we see it from20300:14:54.840 --> 00:14:58.799the jump, thing they tend toswitch up. But they do a little20400:14:58.799 --> 00:15:03.279thing called pushing pool to keep youoff balance, to make you to be20500:15:03.399 --> 00:15:07.240subtle in what they're doing, andthen but come back and like wall hey,20600:15:07.240 --> 00:15:09.879you know what, I'm just tryingto be here for you. That's20700:15:09.879 --> 00:15:13.759called pushing pool. So I forall your narcissists out there, you know,20800:15:13.799 --> 00:15:18.360if I'm giving away your your techniquesin some of your games, then20900:15:18.600 --> 00:15:22.600hey, it's neat to be done, because that's not cool with what y'all21000:15:22.639 --> 00:15:26.360doing. How y'all roll with it. And again, I know about it21100:15:26.399 --> 00:15:28.639because I've, you know, livedaround quite a few of my life.21200:15:28.679 --> 00:15:33.799I've experienced it and Um, thereI said one point in my life and21300:15:33.919 --> 00:15:41.919my um teams early twenties, Icould have been considered narcissists to a degree.21400:15:41.000 --> 00:15:43.879But you know what, when yougrow up, you know better,21500:15:43.919 --> 00:15:48.919you do better. You know again, Um, I'm not trying to see21600:15:48.919 --> 00:15:52.759that on perfect y'all, I stillmake mistakes, you know, cousins and21700:15:52.799 --> 00:15:54.960getting folks. I'm not trying tobe an angel anything like that. I'm21800:15:56.000 --> 00:15:58.000not just trying to keep you allup, keep your uplift, to keep21900:15:58.080 --> 00:16:02.200your encourage and keep y'all up ongame, cousins and King folks. But22000:16:02.440 --> 00:16:06.600yeah, I'm far from being perfect. I still make mistakes. That's why22100:16:07.600 --> 00:16:11.240we're currently under construction. That's whyyou all are my village, that's why22200:16:11.600 --> 00:16:15.360we do the things that we do. Cousins and King Folks, Y'all hold22300:16:15.360 --> 00:16:19.320me accountable and vice versa. AmI right? Yeah, I'm right,22400:16:21.840 --> 00:16:22.879but look, y'all, be onthe lookout out there. You know,22500:16:23.039 --> 00:16:26.279just try to be careful, tobe mindful of, UH, some of22600:16:26.320 --> 00:16:30.840the people that you're inviting your circleor even people that may have been there,22700:16:30.919 --> 00:16:33.879that you may not see what yousee and you may not see what's22800:16:33.879 --> 00:16:36.480going on or what they're doing andhow they handled it or whatever. You22900:16:36.519 --> 00:16:41.039know, Y'all, just be carefulout there because again they slack, they23000:16:41.080 --> 00:16:45.840slick and again the game that they'reshooting everything, they're cold with it on23100:16:45.039 --> 00:16:56.799so many levels. I promise youyou know. But Hey, Um man,23200:16:57.559 --> 00:17:02.240I love y'All. I he toldyou nothing else and told y'all later.23300:17:02.399 --> 00:17:07.599I love y'all, I really do. Um y'all. Y'All have been23400:17:07.680 --> 00:17:11.160rocking with me since day one.You've been rocking with me since, you23500:17:11.200 --> 00:17:14.200know, we decided to put thisthing together in the middle of the pandemic23600:17:14.359 --> 00:17:19.599and, Oh man, we twoplus years in and this is season three23700:17:19.799 --> 00:17:26.960and we're coming up on season fourand I'm excited. I'm really excited about23800:17:26.000 --> 00:17:29.680that's some of the things we gotcoming up in season four. But what23900:17:29.720 --> 00:17:34.319I'm even more excited about is PhoenixFire Radio. Oh yeah, y'all been24000:17:34.319 --> 00:17:37.279emailed about it, you've been askingquestions about it. Again, I don't24100:17:37.279 --> 00:17:40.799have a lot to give you rightnow, but I will tell you this,24200:17:41.680 --> 00:17:45.319Um this is probably one of themost amazing adventures that I have coming24300:17:45.400 --> 00:17:48.960up, even since currently under construction. I'm very excited about Phoenix Fire Radio24400:17:49.119 --> 00:17:52.359and what we're going to the programmingthat we're going to be able to bring24500:17:52.400 --> 00:17:56.519to you all. Like I saidthe only day that I have said that24600:17:56.640 --> 00:18:02.359we do have, I have definitiveprogram on and forward and the format for24700:18:02.400 --> 00:18:04.319them. What we're gonna do isSunday morning. That is going to be24800:18:04.359 --> 00:18:07.880praise and worthship. We're gonna getyou all work, we're gonna get you24900:18:07.880 --> 00:18:11.160all ready for church. We're gonnago on and set the atmosphere. We're25000:18:11.200 --> 00:18:15.559gonna get you uh right in thespirit so you can go in to the25100:18:15.599 --> 00:18:18.599House of the Lord, get whatyou need, get your breakthrough and get25200:18:18.640 --> 00:18:22.920your word from the man and womanof God, from my own high end,25300:18:22.359 --> 00:18:26.039and have an amazing day. Butthat's what we're gonna do for you25400:18:26.119 --> 00:18:29.839all on Sunday mornings. We're gonnaget you all ready. Oh Yeah,25500:18:30.240 --> 00:18:32.279just like I did when we,most of us, was kids. You25600:18:32.319 --> 00:18:33.799know, Y'all know what I'm talkingabout. You know, yeah, at25700:18:33.839 --> 00:18:37.960Your Grandma House with Mama, you'regetting up that she got the church music25800:18:37.000 --> 00:18:41.000going and everything. You're getting readyof the church. You know, if25900:18:41.039 --> 00:18:42.599you're going like that, and mostof us were getting on the Church van26000:18:42.680 --> 00:18:47.440and that the music playing in thatwhile we're going around picking everybody up,26100:18:47.440 --> 00:18:51.039you know, to get ready togo to church and stuff. So yeah,26200:18:51.400 --> 00:18:53.200that's what we got for you.That's what we're gonna do. We're26300:18:53.200 --> 00:18:56.240gonna have a little bit of itall we're gonna have a Little Uh Classic26400:18:56.279 --> 00:19:00.079Gospel and Throw Some Old School Gospelat you. We're gonna come a little26500:19:00.079 --> 00:19:03.599with some of the new schools,some of your your old favorites, you26600:19:03.640 --> 00:19:07.519know, and Um, we're gonnaget you all ready. We're gonna get26700:19:07.519 --> 00:19:11.160you all right, you know,as you're prepared uh to go into the26800:19:11.160 --> 00:19:14.119House of the Lord or whether you'rejust at home watching it on zoom or26900:19:14.119 --> 00:19:17.359whatever the case may be. Butthat's definitely what we're gonna have for you27000:19:17.480 --> 00:19:22.920on Sunday Mornings on Phoenix Fire Radio. Um, still Havn't quite selected that27100:19:23.079 --> 00:19:27.960day that's rotating right now. Wedon't know what, Um, that set27200:19:29.039 --> 00:19:32.319day is going to be. Again, the only days that we have set27300:19:32.440 --> 00:19:38.079right now in the four time slatsthat we have are Saturday, Sunday and27400:19:38.119 --> 00:19:42.839Wednesday. So we still hadn't decidedwhat we're gonna do with that other day.27500:19:42.960 --> 00:19:47.000But, UM, part of meis leaning towards Friday. A lot27600:19:47.000 --> 00:19:51.880of you all have been emailing inand wanted it to be Friday. You27700:19:51.880 --> 00:19:56.319know, we UH heard some peoplesay, uh, fresh fire Friday hurt.27800:19:56.400 --> 00:20:00.079Some people say, uh, youknow, uh funk Friday. You27900:20:00.119 --> 00:20:03.519know funk fest Friday. That that'swhat they said, funk fest Friday.28000:20:03.720 --> 00:20:08.279Some of Y'all. Um One thingwhen, if since I have some of28100:20:08.359 --> 00:20:11.599Y'all say I have the voice forit, I don't know. I don't28200:20:11.640 --> 00:20:15.680hear it, but I'm trusting whaty'all saying with some of Y'all want me28300:20:15.720 --> 00:20:18.480to do a quiet storm, youknow, slows, and I've been thinking28400:20:18.519 --> 00:20:21.240about that. I've been thinking aboutthat. We might do that, but28500:20:21.279 --> 00:20:22.880I don't know. We'll see,but that would be in then. Some28600:20:22.920 --> 00:20:26.079of Y'all just want me to uhput something together. Get you ready to28700:20:26.119 --> 00:20:29.720go to the clubs. Now,y'all know, I ain't no club age28800:20:29.759 --> 00:20:37.039no more. Yeall know that,but I get what you're saying. So28900:20:37.240 --> 00:20:41.119guess what, though, we're gonnahave y'all ready. We're gonna get it29000:20:41.160 --> 00:20:45.640together, we're gonna for January.We're gonna, we're gonna have y'all right.29100:20:45.039 --> 00:20:48.559So get ready for the Phoenix,because the Phoenix is uh about to29200:20:48.599 --> 00:20:56.759take flight. Phoenix fire radio comingJanuary, brought to you by under Construction29300:20:57.119 --> 00:21:02.599Media Services LLC. Well, when, cousins and Kenning folks, I'm gonna29400:21:02.599 --> 00:21:04.519get on the body here for theday. That's my time. I got29500:21:04.599 --> 00:21:07.200two more pots for y'all this week. So be on the lookout forward,29600:21:07.720 --> 00:21:11.720UM and again. You know,hey, if you you think you're dealing29700:21:11.720 --> 00:21:15.519with a narcissist or you know onethat's that's around you and your family and29800:21:15.519 --> 00:21:22.880your life or whatever, just becareful out there, be mindful of their29900:21:22.880 --> 00:21:26.440manipulations and just be on the lookout. COUSINS, King for us, because30000:21:26.480 --> 00:21:30.039I want you all to be safe. I want you all to be able30100:21:30.039 --> 00:21:32.960to live your lives abundantly and tobe able to have all that God has30200:21:33.039 --> 00:21:37.759for you. All right, allright. So that's my time, though,30300:21:37.799 --> 00:21:40.160but you know, again, we'regonna have two more pots this week.30400:21:40.200 --> 00:21:42.839You know, Um, again,continue to keep the emails coming and30500:21:42.880 --> 00:21:47.960everything you can email us here atthe podcast that under construction, nineteen seventy30600:21:48.039 --> 00:21:52.200four at Yahoo DOT com. 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Y'All, come on31700:22:45.720 --> 00:22:47.599getting here with me. You know, I think you know our model,31800:22:47.640 --> 00:22:49.279you know what we do, youknow how we say it. It takes31900:22:49.279 --> 00:22:53.400a village for us to make thisthing happen, and you are all my32000:22:53.559 --> 00:22:59.599village and we're gonna continue to buildthis thing together with each other, step32100:22:59.640 --> 00:23:03.640by it, one break at atime. Currently under construction. I love32200:23:03.680 --> 00:23:07.960you all. I'll talk to youall in a couple of days, if32300:23:07.000 --> 00:23:11.039not tomorrow. Y'All, take iteasy, to stay cool with out there.32400:23:11.079 --> 00:23:11.920I love y'All. Peace,