Narcissist..An inside Look

WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.040 --> 00:00:04.160 You know what time it is. Welcome, my people. Welcome, my 2 00:00:04.280 --> 00:00:07.759 people. Welcome. Do you know what's episode of your favorite podcast and mine 3 00:00:07.799 --> 00:00:11.119 currently under construction? I am your hosts, your cousin, you can't. 4 00:00:11.119 --> 00:00:13.960 Folks, you know what it is. Thank you all so much for joining 5 00:00:14.039 --> 00:00:17.679 us today. UH, man, it's a beautiful day outside. It's hot. 6 00:00:17.760 --> 00:00:20.480 Man, if you're out here and it's hate, please do all that 7 00:00:20.519 --> 00:00:26.480 you can, whatever you can stay cool, stay hydrated, because there's no 8 00:00:26.719 --> 00:00:30.559 joke. got a hate advisor going on over most of the country. So, 9 00:00:31.039 --> 00:00:34.560 cousins and King folks, Y'all be cool out there. Y'All, do 10 00:00:34.719 --> 00:00:39.960 your best to stay hydrated, stay cool where, uh, you know, 11 00:00:40.119 --> 00:00:43.799 keep yourself protective. You wouldn't know whether you need to wear sunscreen. You 12 00:00:43.840 --> 00:00:47.479 know, some type of you be. You be protectant. UH, sleeves 13 00:00:47.479 --> 00:00:51.079 over your arms, a hat on your head, whatever you got to do. 14 00:00:51.439 --> 00:00:55.280 Cousins and King folks, you two ladies won't get on out there and 15 00:00:55.280 --> 00:00:57.960 and make sure that you get yourself covered, make sure that you're good. 16 00:00:58.479 --> 00:01:03.000 So we don't need anybody having any type of heat strokes, because this heat 17 00:01:03.200 --> 00:01:07.680 is no joke. A hundred plus degree weather looks like for the rest of 18 00:01:07.719 --> 00:01:11.799 this week. So please be careful out there. And you know there's a 19 00:01:11.840 --> 00:01:15.640 heat advisory throughout the week. So if you don't necessarily have to get out 20 00:01:15.640 --> 00:01:23.400 there, any cousin can folks, stay inside. Don't do it. Don't 21 00:01:23.640 --> 00:01:26.319 do it. Man. I'm glad you all joined to decide to join us 22 00:01:26.319 --> 00:01:30.000 again today. Man, I've got a great show lined up for you all 23 00:01:30.040 --> 00:01:36.359 today. Say Look, Um, we've touched on this topic before, but 24 00:01:36.599 --> 00:01:40.280 I'm gonna yeah, I'm bringing it back around again and we're gonna talk about 25 00:01:40.359 --> 00:01:42.319 this one of my favorite, well, I'm not gonna say one of my 26 00:01:42.359 --> 00:01:47.959 favorite topics, with a topic that a lot of people have asked me to 27 00:01:48.000 --> 00:01:51.799 come revisit, asked me to bring back up, asked me to talk about 28 00:01:51.879 --> 00:01:59.599 again. And I am talking about dealing with narcissists, dealing with people who, 29 00:02:00.079 --> 00:02:06.799 mh are so into themselves, so all about them, they have complete 30 00:02:06.840 --> 00:02:14.159 disregard for the feelings, the emotions, the lives, the wants, the 31 00:02:14.400 --> 00:02:21.960 needs or anything of anyone outside of themselves. And I just know that someone, 32 00:02:21.960 --> 00:02:23.800 you're sitting here, one of like what, do people out there really 33 00:02:23.800 --> 00:02:29.039 exist? Yeah, they do, cousins and King folks, they out there. 34 00:02:29.879 --> 00:02:32.120 They're out there and they look just like me and you. Sometimes you 35 00:02:32.280 --> 00:02:37.879 never know you're dealing with a narcissist until it's too late. Sometimes, I 36 00:02:37.919 --> 00:02:44.120 mean, they disguised themselves and to be so many different things, but you 37 00:02:44.159 --> 00:02:51.360 don't see it or the understand it until it's too late. They tend to 38 00:02:52.520 --> 00:02:59.639 Um Chuck blame at any given time about anything. They refused to believe at 39 00:02:59.639 --> 00:03:07.560 all that they've done any wrong to anyone. In their minds it's your fault 40 00:03:08.400 --> 00:03:13.000 or in their mind, well, I didn't do anything, that was all 41 00:03:13.080 --> 00:03:21.319 you. Yeah, and a lot of times it's hard to understand the reason 42 00:03:21.479 --> 00:03:25.439 they do some of the things that they do. Sometimes they talked. It's 43 00:03:25.439 --> 00:03:30.719 it's really hard to understand and sometimes you just won't understand. You know, 44 00:03:30.800 --> 00:03:36.000 the difference between us and most, you know, people with a narcissistic mind 45 00:03:36.800 --> 00:03:42.599 is that, Um, they will flip the script on you in a heartbeat 46 00:03:43.439 --> 00:03:46.159 and you never see it coming. They're so smooth and Suave with their game. 47 00:03:47.479 --> 00:03:50.840 And again, like I told you before, cousins are King folks. 48 00:03:51.240 --> 00:03:54.879 It's not just men. There are women narcissist out there too, and they 49 00:03:54.919 --> 00:03:59.840 are cold blooded with it. Y'All, hear me, they're cold with it. 50 00:04:00.000 --> 00:04:03.159 I'm here to tell you, for Yances don't know what they mean. 51 00:04:03.199 --> 00:04:09.360 When I tell somebody cold with it, that means they they lit. Okay, 52 00:04:10.120 --> 00:04:13.560 they lit with it a chord and y'all. But yeah, yeah, 53 00:04:13.719 --> 00:04:16.759 I mean they just they don't care about anybody. They don't care who they 54 00:04:16.800 --> 00:04:19.600 hurt, they don't care who they step on, as long as they get 55 00:04:19.600 --> 00:04:25.720 what it is that they want. I have, Um, I knew someone 56 00:04:25.839 --> 00:04:30.839 that I was dealing with, a narcissist that, you know, he um 57 00:04:30.920 --> 00:04:33.720 for months, you know, had them believing that, you know, they 58 00:04:33.759 --> 00:04:41.480 were in a relationship, you know, but when he um, I just 59 00:04:41.639 --> 00:04:46.720 achieved his gold and whatever he got out of it. You know, he 60 00:04:46.800 --> 00:04:49.399 moved around, you know, and he gave her the reason, like, 61 00:04:49.560 --> 00:04:53.800 you know, hey, you know, Um, God told me it's time 62 00:04:53.839 --> 00:04:56.759 to move on, that you know that I'm in the whole pattern and that 63 00:04:58.839 --> 00:05:02.959 this ain't for. This ain't for and so she was confused by it and 64 00:05:03.000 --> 00:05:06.879 everything. But, you know, he moved on and uh, he's out 65 00:05:06.879 --> 00:05:13.240 there doing the most. Yeah, and it blew her mind because again, 66 00:05:13.399 --> 00:05:15.920 for several months, you know, I don't even close to a year. 67 00:05:15.399 --> 00:05:19.000 You know, they were, you know, going heavy and hard with it, 68 00:05:19.079 --> 00:05:23.720 and then all of a sudden he did a whole u turn, you 69 00:05:23.759 --> 00:05:26.319 know, and she couldn't understand why, or whatever the case may be, 70 00:05:26.399 --> 00:05:29.720 thinking she did something wrong or how could he turn it off? And you 71 00:05:29.759 --> 00:05:30.639 know when she brought it to me and I had to let her know, 72 00:05:30.720 --> 00:05:34.000 hey, you know, this is the game that he's playing. Like, 73 00:05:34.040 --> 00:05:38.720 what do you mean? Okay, Y'all, some of you fellas may not 74 00:05:38.839 --> 00:05:41.680 like this. Some of Y'all may not may maybe may not like it, 75 00:05:41.720 --> 00:05:45.279 but you know, y'all, sit down, buckle up. I'm about to 76 00:05:45.279 --> 00:05:50.920 give you the game. You see, most narcissists, their whole deal is 77 00:05:54.920 --> 00:06:01.040 it's you're a challenge and you're a game to them, and so once they 78 00:06:01.040 --> 00:06:04.839 set out in your their target, then they're going to play whatever role is 79 00:06:04.959 --> 00:06:10.000 necessary. They're gonna go to the moon with it and beyond. Or Trust 80 00:06:10.040 --> 00:06:12.439 me, they're gonna go to the moon with it and beyond. Introduce you 81 00:06:12.480 --> 00:06:15.000 the family, introduce you to the kids. You know, they're gonna go 82 00:06:15.040 --> 00:06:21.959 all out until set game has been a challenge has been achieved in their minds. 83 00:06:23.319 --> 00:06:26.439 Now they may hang around with it for a little while longer but now, 84 00:06:26.480 --> 00:06:30.360 at this particular point, there is no longer a challenge. So in 85 00:06:30.439 --> 00:06:35.519 turn, what they do? They move around. Now I'm gonna step back 86 00:06:35.519 --> 00:06:39.639 for a moment. Now. The key thing is about most narcissists is the 87 00:06:39.720 --> 00:06:46.199 fact that they don't want things ending on your code. That's a problem for 88 00:06:46.240 --> 00:06:51.879 them. They their their ego. The egotistical thoughts won't allow them to to 89 00:06:51.959 --> 00:06:58.319 register into their mind. So then they become dismissive like things that you're telling 90 00:06:58.319 --> 00:07:00.120 them. You tell them what I don't want to do, expose, I 91 00:07:00.160 --> 00:07:01.639 don't want to be with you. Then they become dismissive. They're like, 92 00:07:01.720 --> 00:07:04.560 okay, we'll talk about it later, even though you told them that that 93 00:07:04.680 --> 00:07:08.600 you're done. You, you, you, it's over. You don't want 94 00:07:08.600 --> 00:07:11.680 to hear that. But in their mind they're they're being dismissive to what you 95 00:07:11.759 --> 00:07:14.480 just said because in their mind they're saying that, oh, we'll just talk 96 00:07:14.519 --> 00:07:15.480 about it later. You know, I'm gonna let you do what you're gonna 97 00:07:15.480 --> 00:07:20.240 do for right now. We'll talk about it later. The Ego won't let 98 00:07:20.240 --> 00:07:24.360 that compute in their mind and they won't let them let it roll with and 99 00:07:24.480 --> 00:07:30.000 let it compute to them. But uh again, moving forward with that. 100 00:07:30.560 --> 00:07:34.519 You know, it has to end on their terms for them to say at 101 00:07:34.560 --> 00:07:38.680 that moment that they're done with you or whatever. So now you're left, 102 00:07:39.000 --> 00:07:44.199 you know, picking up the pieces. Now what most do, and and 103 00:07:44.439 --> 00:07:49.639 it's not all, but what most do in turn after that, is they 104 00:07:49.680 --> 00:07:57.319 will look back around. But you serious? Yeah, yeah, I am 105 00:07:57.399 --> 00:08:01.680 serious. They will look back around. They will, in turn look back 106 00:08:01.680 --> 00:08:05.600 around, not because they miss you, not because they care or still love 107 00:08:05.639 --> 00:08:09.120 you. They'll look back around because, in their mind, according to them, 108 00:08:09.199 --> 00:08:15.160 they want to see if the door is still open or they're still a 109 00:08:15.319 --> 00:08:20.920 crack in it somewhere. So unless at that particular moment you shut it, 110 00:08:20.959 --> 00:08:26.839 don't shut it down immediately, and you give them any type of conversation, 111 00:08:26.399 --> 00:08:31.560 whether it's a text message, whether it's just a hello, and you hadn't 112 00:08:31.600 --> 00:08:37.759 just shut it down, then then in their mind game on they are ready. 113 00:08:37.799 --> 00:08:41.759 They've crunk up again. So now, in their particular mind, whether 114 00:08:41.799 --> 00:08:46.639 you're single or you have miss someone, in their mind, then they're gonna 115 00:08:46.720 --> 00:08:50.120 say, I'm going to see how long it's gonna take me to wish this 116 00:08:50.279 --> 00:08:56.039 door back open again. Not that they want you, not that they love 117 00:08:56.080 --> 00:09:01.279 you. Or anything, or they're missing you. It's old in the game, 118 00:09:01.879 --> 00:09:05.519 it's holding the game. I'm signing like e a sports, e sports, 119 00:09:05.679 --> 00:09:09.000 uh, that I'm not trying to trade mark y'all. I'm not trying 120 00:09:09.000 --> 00:09:13.480 to infringe on what y'all got going on or anything like that. Um Don't 121 00:09:13.480 --> 00:09:20.559 see us. But no, seriously, seriously, this is exactly how they 122 00:09:20.679 --> 00:09:22.799 roll. It's all that. It's all in their game to them, in 123 00:09:22.840 --> 00:09:28.279 their mind. So even if you're involved with someone now, they'll come off 124 00:09:28.279 --> 00:09:31.960 at first like hey, you know whether you you I'm so glad for you. 125 00:09:31.000 --> 00:09:35.240 I'm happy for you. I'm really happy that you that you found somebody 126 00:09:35.240 --> 00:09:37.720 and you make happy. I know I didn't do right in there anything, 127 00:09:37.759 --> 00:09:43.919 but you know what, I'm happy for you. But the whole time it's 128 00:09:45.000 --> 00:09:48.559 running off in their mind. The whole time it's game on, because now 129 00:09:48.840 --> 00:09:54.639 they're trying to see how they can just stay there long enough and wedge their 130 00:09:54.720 --> 00:09:58.279 way back in. They sort of play the same game that uh, people 131 00:10:00.039 --> 00:10:03.679 eyes most of the guys that are put into the friends zone playing, because 132 00:10:03.679 --> 00:10:05.919 you know, most guys that are put into the friends zone with the woman 133 00:10:05.960 --> 00:10:09.120 that they have an interest in, they'll just hang around and try to see 134 00:10:09.240 --> 00:10:13.200 if they just that right moment come along to where you know they can ease 135 00:10:13.240 --> 00:10:16.080 their way in, especially if the woman is involved with somebody. You know 136 00:10:16.080 --> 00:10:18.799 they're gonna be there. They'RE gonna be that listing ear or whatever, and 137 00:10:18.840 --> 00:10:22.840 they're just gonna hang around mole to try to get in. Well, this 138 00:10:22.919 --> 00:10:26.320 is what this is what that narcissist gonna do. He's gonna hang around and 139 00:10:26.320 --> 00:10:28.799 try to see if any issues. She's gonna throw the the jabs here there 140 00:10:28.799 --> 00:10:31.639 to see how do you respond to it? About the person that you're with, 141 00:10:31.840 --> 00:10:33.240 you know, and if you have any issues, that he's gonna through 142 00:10:33.279 --> 00:10:35.120 the Oh man, if that was me, I wouldn't have done that. 143 00:10:35.159 --> 00:10:37.440 Oh, you know what. I know they've been hurt, but hey, 144 00:10:37.559 --> 00:10:41.720 don't you know, just, you know, keep smiling and everything. You 145 00:10:41.759 --> 00:10:43.519 know it's gonna be all right. But the whole time, it's the whole 146 00:10:43.559 --> 00:10:52.960 setup. They're positioning themselves to be there, they're positioning themselves to Um uh 147 00:10:52.159 --> 00:10:56.840 continue own and again they're very patient. They're very good at playing the long 148 00:10:58.000 --> 00:11:03.120 game. Yeah, again, this this may take months and they have the 149 00:11:03.200 --> 00:11:07.519 patience forward. They're not gonna rush anything now. Some a little more, 150 00:11:07.679 --> 00:11:11.000 you know, dramatic and a little more possessive and directing others. But most 151 00:11:11.039 --> 00:11:15.720 of them, for the most part, they played a long game. It's 152 00:11:15.879 --> 00:11:18.720 then play it. And then it did. Throw a little japs here and 153 00:11:18.759 --> 00:11:24.399 there and Um may say, Hey, you know what, I just wanted 154 00:11:24.440 --> 00:11:26.039 to stop by. You know, they'll come by unannounced or, you know, 155 00:11:26.200 --> 00:11:28.799 made up and called in the middle of the night while you sit there, 156 00:11:30.000 --> 00:11:31.600 you know, laid up. You know, I'll snuggled up with your 157 00:11:31.639 --> 00:11:35.639 your man or your woman and everything. They calling their thing and then they're 158 00:11:35.720 --> 00:11:37.600 like, oh, I ain't meaning to call. I end up Butt Downing 159 00:11:37.639 --> 00:11:41.960 you or uh, something of that particulation, knowing that's gonna Cause an issue 160 00:11:43.639 --> 00:11:52.080 between you and your mate, this little sort of stuff like that. Yeah, 161 00:11:52.360 --> 00:11:56.000 they throw it out there. They'll do it real quick and now, 162 00:11:56.039 --> 00:11:58.919 as soon as you know, things may go one way or the other. 163 00:11:58.960 --> 00:12:01.320 which then and they're talking about or you have any doubts about who you will 164 00:12:01.440 --> 00:12:05.080 you know, then here they come. Hey, you know I'm here for 165 00:12:05.159 --> 00:12:07.360 you. Hey, but you know what, you know I still love you. 166 00:12:07.440 --> 00:12:09.879 I know I messed up with what I did, but you know I 167 00:12:09.919 --> 00:12:13.039 still love you, and everything and all the history between us. You know 168 00:12:13.159 --> 00:12:15.399 it's supposed to be me and you in any way. Blah, blah, 169 00:12:15.440 --> 00:12:20.320 blah, blah, blah, Blah Blah. And there they go. Now 170 00:12:20.360 --> 00:12:26.639 they're trying to see if you get in now. Sometimes this works, a 171 00:12:26.639 --> 00:12:30.399 lot of times it don't, but for the most part in their minds it's 172 00:12:30.440 --> 00:12:33.559 works. And even if at that particular moment and it don't, you don't, 173 00:12:33.600 --> 00:12:35.039 they don't give in at that moment, they're still gonna try again, 174 00:12:35.080 --> 00:12:39.279 they're still gonna keep themselves position right, because then they're gonna begin to use 175 00:12:39.360 --> 00:12:43.720 things from your past or that they knew about you, try to push buttons 176 00:12:43.720 --> 00:12:50.960 and manipulate. They're greater manipulation, by the way, masters at it, 177 00:12:50.960 --> 00:12:56.960 masters at it, but they'll use little things like that to to manipulate here 178 00:12:56.039 --> 00:13:03.159 there, and then the next thing you know they're back in there. You 179 00:13:03.240 --> 00:13:09.559 may have broken up with that person and Um, y'all might have had um 180 00:13:09.600 --> 00:13:16.120 a night or two here there. You know, of you know, we 181 00:13:16.240 --> 00:13:18.559 we we're gonna say what that we're not gonna talk about what that is. 182 00:13:18.639 --> 00:13:20.039 But you know, we've grown folks, were grown cousins and knding folks. 183 00:13:20.120 --> 00:13:22.799 You already know what I'm talking about it and you already know what I'm getting 184 00:13:22.840 --> 00:13:26.360 there. Somebody ain't got to uh going on further. What's understood don't have 185 00:13:26.440 --> 00:13:33.960 to be explained you. They get already. So once that they've they've accomplished 186 00:13:33.960 --> 00:13:39.600 that. So now you're sitting there thinking like okay, well, you know, 187 00:13:39.600 --> 00:13:41.039 I'm gonna give us another chance. But in his mind like, okay, 188 00:13:41.080 --> 00:13:48.480 you know what, this mission is accomplished. I'm out. What they 189 00:13:48.519 --> 00:13:56.159 out again. The whole thing wasn't just because they loved you or wanted to 190 00:13:56.200 --> 00:14:00.639 be with you and be back with you. In their mind it was all 191 00:14:00.720 --> 00:14:05.519 part of the game. It don't make sense to us, but in their 192 00:14:05.639 --> 00:14:11.080 minds it makes perfect sense and that's all that matters to them at that moment. 193 00:14:13.000 --> 00:14:16.360 We'll never see it, will never wrap our minds around it, like 194 00:14:16.440 --> 00:14:18.879 why, why would you go through all that and do that? And I 195 00:14:18.919 --> 00:14:22.279 didn't, you know, then start cooking for you again and did X, 196 00:14:22.399 --> 00:14:24.399 Y Z or whatever whatnot, and we didn't did what's not it doesn't matter 197 00:14:26.720 --> 00:14:30.919 in their minds whether, uh, they begin to do things for you, 198 00:14:30.960 --> 00:14:33.320 to get things out of you, whatever the case may be. In their 199 00:14:33.360 --> 00:14:37.720 minds, mission has been accomplished. They have set out and been able to 200 00:14:37.759 --> 00:14:43.679 do what it is that they wanted to do and you fell forward, Hook, 201 00:14:45.399 --> 00:14:50.480 line and sinker. But we don't see it intil their last moment. 202 00:14:52.600 --> 00:14:54.840 Sometimes we can see it from the jump. And if we see it from 203 00:14:54.840 --> 00:14:58.799 the jump, thing they tend to switch up. But they do a little 204 00:14:58.799 --> 00:15:03.279 thing called pushing pool to keep you off balance, to make you to be 205 00:15:03.399 --> 00:15:07.240 subtle in what they're doing, and then but come back and like wall hey, 206 00:15:07.240 --> 00:15:09.879 you know what, I'm just trying to be here for you. That's 207 00:15:09.879 --> 00:15:13.759 called pushing pool. So I for all your narcissists out there, you know, 208 00:15:13.799 --> 00:15:18.360 if I'm giving away your your techniques in some of your games, then 209 00:15:18.600 --> 00:15:22.600 hey, it's neat to be done, because that's not cool with what y'all 210 00:15:22.639 --> 00:15:26.360 doing. How y'all roll with it. And again, I know about it 211 00:15:26.399 --> 00:15:28.639 because I've, you know, lived around quite a few of my life. 212 00:15:28.679 --> 00:15:33.799 I've experienced it and Um, there I said one point in my life and 213 00:15:33.919 --> 00:15:41.919 my um teams early twenties, I could have been considered narcissists to a degree. 214 00:15:41.000 --> 00:15:43.879 But you know what, when you grow up, you know better, 215 00:15:43.919 --> 00:15:48.919 you do better. You know again, Um, I'm not trying to see 216 00:15:48.919 --> 00:15:52.759 that on perfect y'all, I still make mistakes, you know, cousins and 217 00:15:52.799 --> 00:15:54.960 getting folks. I'm not trying to be an angel anything like that. I'm 218 00:15:56.000 --> 00:15:58.000 not just trying to keep you all up, keep your uplift, to keep 219 00:15:58.080 --> 00:16:02.200 your encourage and keep y'all up on game, cousins and King folks. But 220 00:16:02.440 --> 00:16:06.600 yeah, I'm far from being perfect. I still make mistakes. That's why 221 00:16:07.600 --> 00:16:11.240 we're currently under construction. That's why you all are my village, that's why 222 00:16:11.600 --> 00:16:15.360 we do the things that we do. Cousins and King Folks, Y'all hold 223 00:16:15.360 --> 00:16:19.320 me accountable and vice versa. Am I right? Yeah, I'm right, 224 00:16:21.840 --> 00:16:22.879 but look, y'all, be on the lookout out there. You know, 225 00:16:23.039 --> 00:16:26.279 just try to be careful, to be mindful of, UH, some of 226 00:16:26.320 --> 00:16:30.840 the people that you're inviting your circle or even people that may have been there, 227 00:16:30.919 --> 00:16:33.879 that you may not see what you see and you may not see what's 228 00:16:33.879 --> 00:16:36.480 going on or what they're doing and how they handled it or whatever. You 229 00:16:36.519 --> 00:16:41.039 know, Y'all, just be careful out there because again they slack, they 230 00:16:41.080 --> 00:16:45.840 slick and again the game that they're shooting everything, they're cold with it on 231 00:16:45.039 --> 00:16:56.799 so many levels. I promise you you know. But Hey, Um man, 232 00:16:57.559 --> 00:17:02.240 I love y'All. I he told you nothing else and told y'all later. 233 00:17:02.399 --> 00:17:07.599 I love y'all, I really do. Um y'all. Y'All have been 234 00:17:07.680 --> 00:17:11.160 rocking with me since day one. You've been rocking with me since, you 235 00:17:11.200 --> 00:17:14.200 know, we decided to put this thing together in the middle of the pandemic 236 00:17:14.359 --> 00:17:19.599 and, Oh man, we two plus years in and this is season three 237 00:17:19.799 --> 00:17:26.960 and we're coming up on season four and I'm excited. I'm really excited about 238 00:17:26.000 --> 00:17:29.680 that's some of the things we got coming up in season four. But what 239 00:17:29.720 --> 00:17:34.319 I'm even more excited about is Phoenix Fire Radio. Oh yeah, y'all been 240 00:17:34.319 --> 00:17:37.279 emailed about it, you've been asking questions about it. Again, I don't 241 00:17:37.279 --> 00:17:40.799 have a lot to give you right now, but I will tell you this, 242 00:17:41.680 --> 00:17:45.319 Um this is probably one of the most amazing adventures that I have coming 243 00:17:45.400 --> 00:17:48.960 up, even since currently under construction. I'm very excited about Phoenix Fire Radio 244 00:17:49.119 --> 00:17:52.359 and what we're going to the programming that we're going to be able to bring 245 00:17:52.400 --> 00:17:56.519 to you all. Like I said the only day that I have said that 246 00:17:56.640 --> 00:18:02.359 we do have, I have definitive program on and forward and the format for 247 00:18:02.400 --> 00:18:04.319 them. What we're gonna do is Sunday morning. That is going to be 248 00:18:04.359 --> 00:18:07.880 praise and worthship. We're gonna get you all work, we're gonna get you 249 00:18:07.880 --> 00:18:11.160 all ready for church. We're gonna go on and set the atmosphere. We're 250 00:18:11.200 --> 00:18:15.559 gonna get you uh right in the spirit so you can go in to the 251 00:18:15.599 --> 00:18:18.599 House of the Lord, get what you need, get your breakthrough and get 252 00:18:18.640 --> 00:18:22.920 your word from the man and woman of God, from my own high end, 253 00:18:22.359 --> 00:18:26.039 and have an amazing day. But that's what we're gonna do for you 254 00:18:26.119 --> 00:18:29.839 all on Sunday mornings. We're gonna get you all ready. Oh Yeah, 255 00:18:30.240 --> 00:18:32.279 just like I did when we, most of us, was kids. You 256 00:18:32.319 --> 00:18:33.799 know, Y'all know what I'm talking about. You know, yeah, at 257 00:18:33.839 --> 00:18:37.960 Your Grandma House with Mama, you're getting up that she got the church music 258 00:18:37.000 --> 00:18:41.000 going and everything. You're getting ready of the church. You know, if 259 00:18:41.039 --> 00:18:42.599 you're going like that, and most of us were getting on the Church van 260 00:18:42.680 --> 00:18:47.440 and that the music playing in that while we're going around picking everybody up, 261 00:18:47.440 --> 00:18:51.039 you know, to get ready to go to church and stuff. So yeah, 262 00:18:51.400 --> 00:18:53.200 that's what we got for you. That's what we're gonna do. We're 263 00:18:53.200 --> 00:18:56.240 gonna have a little bit of it all we're gonna have a Little Uh Classic 264 00:18:56.279 --> 00:19:00.079 Gospel and Throw Some Old School Gospel at you. We're gonna come a little 265 00:19:00.079 --> 00:19:03.599 with some of the new schools, some of your your old favorites, you 266 00:19:03.640 --> 00:19:07.519 know, and Um, we're gonna get you all ready. We're gonna get 267 00:19:07.519 --> 00:19:11.160 you all right, you know, as you're prepared uh to go into the 268 00:19:11.160 --> 00:19:14.119 House of the Lord or whether you're just at home watching it on zoom or 269 00:19:14.119 --> 00:19:17.359 whatever the case may be. But that's definitely what we're gonna have for you 270 00:19:17.480 --> 00:19:22.920 on Sunday Mornings on Phoenix Fire Radio. Um, still Havn't quite selected that 271 00:19:23.079 --> 00:19:27.960 day that's rotating right now. We don't know what, Um, that set 272 00:19:29.039 --> 00:19:32.319 day is going to be. Again, the only days that we have set 273 00:19:32.440 --> 00:19:38.079 right now in the four time slats that we have are Saturday, Sunday and 274 00:19:38.119 --> 00:19:42.839 Wednesday. So we still hadn't decided what we're gonna do with that other day. 275 00:19:42.960 --> 00:19:47.000 But, UM, part of me is leaning towards Friday. A lot 276 00:19:47.000 --> 00:19:51.880 of you all have been emailing in and wanted it to be Friday. You 277 00:19:51.880 --> 00:19:56.319 know, we UH heard some people say, uh, fresh fire Friday hurt. 278 00:19:56.400 --> 00:20:00.079 Some people say, uh, you know, uh funk Friday. You 279 00:20:00.119 --> 00:20:03.519 know funk fest Friday. That that's what they said, funk fest Friday. 280 00:20:03.720 --> 00:20:08.279 Some of Y'all. Um One thing when, if since I have some of 281 00:20:08.359 --> 00:20:11.599 Y'all say I have the voice for it, I don't know. I don't 282 00:20:11.640 --> 00:20:15.680 hear it, but I'm trusting what y'all saying with some of Y'all want me 283 00:20:15.720 --> 00:20:18.480 to do a quiet storm, you know, slows, and I've been thinking 284 00:20:18.519 --> 00:20:21.240 about that. I've been thinking about that. We might do that, but 285 00:20:21.279 --> 00:20:22.880 I don't know. We'll see, but that would be in then. Some 286 00:20:22.920 --> 00:20:26.079 of Y'all just want me to uh put something together. Get you ready to 287 00:20:26.119 --> 00:20:29.720 go to the clubs. Now, y'all know, I ain't no club age 288 00:20:29.759 --> 00:20:37.039 no more. Yeall know that, but I get what you're saying. So 289 00:20:37.240 --> 00:20:41.119 guess what, though, we're gonna have y'all ready. We're gonna get it 290 00:20:41.160 --> 00:20:45.640 together, we're gonna for January. We're gonna, we're gonna have y'all right. 291 00:20:45.039 --> 00:20:48.559 So get ready for the Phoenix, because the Phoenix is uh about to 292 00:20:48.599 --> 00:20:56.759 take flight. Phoenix fire radio coming January, brought to you by under Construction 293 00:20:57.119 --> 00:21:02.599 Media Services LLC. Well, when, cousins and Kenning folks, I'm gonna 294 00:21:02.599 --> 00:21:04.519 get on the body here for the day. That's my time. I got 295 00:21:04.599 --> 00:21:07.200 two more pots for y'all this week. So be on the lookout forward, 296 00:21:07.720 --> 00:21:11.720 UM and again. You know, hey, if you you think you're dealing 297 00:21:11.720 --> 00:21:15.519 with a narcissist or you know one that's that's around you and your family and 298 00:21:15.519 --> 00:21:22.880 your life or whatever, just be careful out there, be mindful of their 299 00:21:22.880 --> 00:21:26.440 manipulations and just be on the lookout. COUSINS, King for us, because 300 00:21:26.480 --> 00:21:30.039 I want you all to be safe. I want you all to be able 301 00:21:30.039 --> 00:21:32.960 to live your lives abundantly and to be able to have all that God has 302 00:21:33.039 --> 00:21:37.759 for you. All right, all right. So that's my time, though, 303 00:21:37.799 --> 00:21:40.160 but you know, again, we're gonna have two more pots this week. 304 00:21:40.200 --> 00:21:42.839 You know, Um, again, continue to keep the emails coming and 305 00:21:42.880 --> 00:21:47.960 everything you can email us here at the podcast that under construction, nineteen seventy 306 00:21:48.039 --> 00:21:52.200 four at Yahoo DOT com. That is under construction, nineteen seventy four at 307 00:21:52.319 --> 00:21:57.079 Yahoo dot com, and continue to support us and subscribe, share with a 308 00:21:57.200 --> 00:22:00.359 friend, uh, wherever you get your podcast, where if you listen to 309 00:22:00.440 --> 00:22:04.359 your podcast, you can listen to us on Google podcast, apple podcast, 310 00:22:04.519 --> 00:22:11.359 spotify, radio, public uh, overcast, pocket cast, Castro cast box. 311 00:22:11.839 --> 00:22:15.839 I heart radio. Deezer, many many others. 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Currently under construction. I love 322 00:23:03.680 --> 00:23:07.960 you all. I'll talk to you all in a couple of days, if 323 00:23:07.000 --> 00:23:11.039 not tomorrow. Y'All, take it easy, to stay cool with out there. 324 00:23:11.079 --> 00:23:11.920 I love y'All. Peace,