Replay: Its not about the destination, its about the journey.

WEBVTT100:00:01.800 --> 00:00:06.400Welcome to the newest episode of yourfavorite podcast and mine, currently on the200:00:06.480 --> 00:00:10.000construction. I am your host,Otis. Thank you so much for joining300:00:10.039 --> 00:00:16.519us today. Two it is Saturday, March nineteen. You're just about to400:00:16.559 --> 00:00:20.399hear at the end of the month. I hope everyone's had a great hope500:00:20.440 --> 00:00:26.399everyone's has shaken back from, uh, losing that hour sleep that we lost600:00:26.519 --> 00:00:33.359last weekend. I know I am. I'm still recovering. But you know700:00:33.439 --> 00:00:36.880what, though, we gotta keepit pumping, we gotta keep it going.800:00:37.000 --> 00:00:41.159We gotta keep it going, indeed, need to, man, I900:00:41.159 --> 00:00:44.520hope it again. I hope everyonehas had a great week, great prosperous1000:00:44.600 --> 00:00:49.240week. You know that they're enjoyingthat weekend. So far it's really it's1100:00:49.280 --> 00:00:54.280sunny outside, it's great temperature.So, Hey, if you haven't go1200:00:54.359 --> 00:00:58.359outside and enjoyed this beautiful day,go do something for yourself, whether you1300:00:58.520 --> 00:01:03.039buy yourself with a love one,with your spouse, with your children,1400:01:03.119 --> 00:01:07.400or whatever the case may be.Get out today enjoy itself, to enjoy1500:01:07.439 --> 00:01:11.560the sunshine, enjoy this beautiful day, just do whatever it is that your1600:01:11.599 --> 00:01:17.359heart's desire. When all that youdo, continue to enjoy this thing,1700:01:17.439 --> 00:01:22.319then that we're on together, thisjourney that we're on together called life.1800:01:23.280 --> 00:01:27.680And speaking of journeys, uh,that will lead us in a segway into1900:01:27.760 --> 00:01:33.239today's topic that I want to sitdown and just have a discussion with you2000:01:33.319 --> 00:01:38.640all, my kin folks and cousins. Um I saw a post earlier this2100:01:38.680 --> 00:01:46.719week that someone stated's too sometimes it'snot about the destination, but it's about2200:01:46.719 --> 00:01:52.280the journey that you take to getthere. I'm gonna read it again.2300:01:52.319 --> 00:01:57.239Sometimes it's not about the destination,but it's about the journey that you take2400:01:57.680 --> 00:02:05.680to get there. That's said withme all week. It did it,2500:02:05.079 --> 00:02:07.879it said with me, it jumpedout at me and it said with me2600:02:08.039 --> 00:02:17.199all week because we as people,especially in today's society, we're all look2700:02:17.840 --> 00:02:24.080for instant gratification, instant success,whatever it is that we may set out2800:02:24.120 --> 00:02:30.400to do or things that we maywant, we wanted at then, at2900:02:30.439 --> 00:02:38.280that moment, whether it's you won'ta hundred thousand followers on social media like3000:02:38.520 --> 00:02:46.560Tigtik or Instagram, whether you wantUm your business that you may have started3100:02:46.599 --> 00:02:53.080to be up and successful and youhave a boatload of clientele, you want3200:02:53.199 --> 00:03:01.319that immediately. But a lot ofus don't take the time, MHM two,3300:03:02.479 --> 00:03:10.439sit and think about or even enjoythat journey that we go on in3400:03:10.560 --> 00:03:19.840order to achieve those things. Andwhen, when I read that, I3500:03:19.919 --> 00:03:28.639looked back my for me myself,I thought back on my education. I3600:03:28.680 --> 00:03:36.120thought back on me starting in kindergartenand own up to high school, when3700:03:36.159 --> 00:03:43.800I graduated. And even though thethe end goal was for me to graduate3800:03:43.840 --> 00:03:46.719from High School, to get myhigh school diploma and get that education,3900:03:47.280 --> 00:03:57.039I thought back on the journey thatI took working my way to that and4000:03:57.680 --> 00:04:05.960those are some of the best yearsof my life, from elementary school to4100:04:06.280 --> 00:04:15.360middle slash junior high school on tohigh school at the Washsman High School.4200:04:15.319 --> 00:04:20.120Shout out to shout out to mywildcats, shout out to the class three4300:04:20.199 --> 00:04:27.079A, state champion lady wildcats andthe class three a running up washsman wildcats4400:04:27.680 --> 00:04:32.439were six strong and I am extremelyproud of my high school Alma Mater.4500:04:33.600 --> 00:04:43.439But I digress. But just thinkingon that journey that I took leading up4600:04:43.480 --> 00:04:46.920to me graduating, it was againthat was some of the best years of4700:04:46.959 --> 00:04:50.439my life and I thought back onit in the journey that I took to4800:04:50.480 --> 00:04:56.920get that, whether it was theUM, the nights of studying or the4900:04:57.040 --> 00:05:02.000things that came to me fairly easy, or the wonderful teachers that I had.5000:05:02.199 --> 00:05:10.000Some I did care for some wonderfuland great teachers who was was really5100:05:10.079 --> 00:05:15.680hard on me and I couldn't understandthat reason why at that particular time,5200:05:15.720 --> 00:05:18.959because I'm just like look, whyis this teacher always on my back,5300:05:19.759 --> 00:05:27.319like literally, I can do nothing. But those are the teachers I ended5400:05:27.399 --> 00:05:33.399up appreciating more than anything because theysaw something in me and that they knew5500:05:33.720 --> 00:05:40.079they had to stay on me,to push me in order to bring out5600:05:41.000 --> 00:05:46.480the best in me, and thoseteachers I appreciate. I'm there. I5700:05:46.560 --> 00:05:53.480have like maybe four or five teachersthat come to mind that had that mentality,5800:05:53.519 --> 00:05:58.600that teaching meant that much to them, that they saw whatever in me5900:05:58.879 --> 00:06:02.879and they pushed me the way thatthey did. Now I'm not going to6000:06:02.959 --> 00:06:10.480go into naming these teachers. Thatactually will be another topic for another episode6100:06:11.680 --> 00:06:15.079for later this year, but youwill get that episode and you will know6200:06:15.120 --> 00:06:19.879who these teachers are and you willknow why I appreciated them so much.6300:06:20.399 --> 00:06:27.720So you just have to tune infor that episode when it comes but in6400:06:27.759 --> 00:06:34.240the meantime I thought back on thatjourney and then I moved forward and thought6500:06:34.279 --> 00:06:42.040about the journey that I was ongetting to the point of even where I6600:06:42.079 --> 00:06:46.480am right now. Now, I'mnot where I want to be, I'm6700:06:46.519 --> 00:06:50.639not where I've set out to be, but I'm further alone than where I6800:06:50.720 --> 00:06:56.839was when I started. Now thatmay seem cliche, it may sound so,6900:06:57.879 --> 00:07:02.199and that's okay if it does.But the thing is we all have7000:07:02.360 --> 00:07:08.839a starting point if we're one ofthose type of people who always looking to7100:07:09.000 --> 00:07:13.879progress, who wants more out oflife than just going along with the status7200:07:13.959 --> 00:07:20.000quo. But when we set upto do these things, whether it's a7300:07:20.160 --> 00:07:29.759small God, whether it's you gettingmarried, whether it's you going to the7400:07:29.839 --> 00:07:34.560NFL, whether you obtaining this particularjob and a particular role in position in7500:07:34.639 --> 00:07:41.680this job, it's not about youfinally achieve it, even though that's a7600:07:41.720 --> 00:07:46.000great thing and you're doing so.But again, what we never do is7700:07:46.120 --> 00:07:56.160take the time to enjoy that journeyalong the way to that destination. Well,7800:07:56.160 --> 00:08:01.759look and say we're more so focusedon getting there, getting there,7900:08:03.000 --> 00:08:09.879even me myself, with currently underconstruction. When I started it, I8000:08:11.399 --> 00:08:16.160again I've told you all the storybefore and I and I wanted to be8100:08:16.399 --> 00:08:24.680a very successful podcast to where wehave listeners here. That which we do,8200:08:26.759 --> 00:08:30.560but I wanted to be on thelevel of some of the other podcasts8300:08:30.560 --> 00:08:33.559that I hear are that I listenedto myself, whether it's the right time8400:08:33.559 --> 00:08:39.759with Bamonta Jones or unbothered with Jamale hill. I'm pushing and praying that8500:08:41.240 --> 00:08:46.600it gets to that level, butin the meantime I'm enjoying this journey of8600:08:46.799 --> 00:08:52.919growing. I'm enjoying this journey oflearning everything that I've learned so far and8700:08:52.919 --> 00:09:01.600that I'm still learning about podcasting,about the a little interest, uh small8800:09:01.840 --> 00:09:07.120levels of it that I've taken,that I've grown with. Uh Editing,8900:09:07.600 --> 00:09:13.840formatting, um, different sounds,using sound board, different softwares, Um,9000:09:15.080 --> 00:09:20.120the different podcast communities that I've becomea part of and that I'm still9100:09:20.200 --> 00:09:24.240growing with, and everything. It'sthese little things that I'm enjoying learning in9200:09:24.279 --> 00:09:33.960the process and being and growing tobe the best podcaster that I can to9300:09:33.000 --> 00:09:39.799continue to help currently under construction growfrom one level to the next. I9400:09:39.919 --> 00:09:43.399know what I want this to do. I know where I want it to9500:09:43.559 --> 00:09:50.360be. But I'm enjoying the journeythat I'm on right now and getting there,9600:09:50.799 --> 00:09:54.440and that's what we have to dopeople. We have to take the9700:09:54.519 --> 00:10:00.840time to enjoy that journey that we'reon, whatever you may be doing in9800:10:00.879 --> 00:10:09.840life, to do so, evenyour walk with up and that that's one9900:10:09.879 --> 00:10:13.080of the most important things, evenyour walk with God. We know what10000:10:13.279 --> 00:10:16.360we want to be, we knowwhere we want to be in our relationship10100:10:16.440 --> 00:10:22.039with God, but take the timeto enjoy the journey along the way that10200:10:22.120 --> 00:10:28.759God takes us along the way.Faith without works is dead. We can10300:10:28.799 --> 00:10:31.399have faith in wanting to God todo something for us and whatever it is10400:10:31.399 --> 00:10:37.120that we may ask for him todo, but we have to have faith10500:10:37.240 --> 00:10:43.080and then begin to do the workalone the way in their journey. In10600:10:43.200 --> 00:10:48.840doing so, for example, youcan't sit and go pray to God and10700:10:48.879 --> 00:10:52.519ask God, God, I seethis particular job, I want this job,10800:10:52.919 --> 00:10:56.600I don't want to but taining thisposition in their job. But in10900:10:56.639 --> 00:11:01.759the meantime you've asked him forward andyou got faith for it. But you11000:11:01.799 --> 00:11:05.879can't expect God to bring their jobto you if you don't get out there11100:11:05.240 --> 00:11:09.159and do the work yourself, ifyou don't get out there and put a11200:11:09.240 --> 00:11:16.600resume together, apply for the position, go from there to whatever uh they're11300:11:16.679 --> 00:11:22.519hiring processes to go, making surethat you know, your interview goes well,11400:11:22.919 --> 00:11:26.960to making sure that you present yourselfas such, that you sell yourself11500:11:28.000 --> 00:11:35.279and your particular skill set relating tothat position in doing so. See,11600:11:35.320 --> 00:11:41.759that's that journey along the way thatyou taking the time to do it and11700:11:41.799 --> 00:11:46.440to go through that journey and andand in order to achieve you getting that11800:11:46.519 --> 00:11:58.039position that you asked and you prayedto God for. This journey is not11900:11:58.200 --> 00:12:03.759for the swift. This is amarathon and in any and everything that we12000:12:03.879 --> 00:12:09.759do, we can't continue to runaround looking for instant gratification. All those12100:12:09.759 --> 00:12:16.639society mix US think and feel thatthat's what it's about or that's what we12200:12:16.639 --> 00:12:26.200should shoot for. It's not,because if you just set solely on you12300:12:26.480 --> 00:12:31.960getting there and achieving it, you'regonna miss everything in between. You'RE gonna12400:12:33.720 --> 00:12:41.200end up stepping on people alone theway who may have taken the time to12500:12:41.399 --> 00:12:50.840help you along in that particular journeyand you not even realize it. You12600:12:50.879 --> 00:13:00.120know that. Again, these arethings that God has helped me learn and12700:13:00.200 --> 00:13:05.200help me see and learn along thisjourney and I'm hoping to be able to12800:13:05.240 --> 00:13:11.840pour this into someone else so theythat they can see that it's not all12900:13:11.879 --> 00:13:20.639about getting there, but everything inthe relationships that you build and the things13000:13:20.679 --> 00:13:26.000that you may do along the wayto help you get there, because in13100:13:26.039 --> 00:13:33.600the process, these relationships and theseskills that and whatever, or again,13200:13:33.840 --> 00:13:37.480alone the way of whatever journey thatyou may be on in order to get13300:13:37.559 --> 00:13:41.519to such destination, will help youeven go to the next level beyond that.13400:13:46.080 --> 00:13:54.080But we got to take our time. I smell the roses. That's13500:13:54.120 --> 00:13:58.639not being such a rush to toget to the finish line. Guess we13600:13:58.639 --> 00:14:01.159want to get there, but it'snot being such a rush to get there13700:14:03.799 --> 00:14:09.639because who knows what mistakes we maymake alone the way, or what pitfalls13800:14:09.720 --> 00:14:15.840may may get in our path,or what we may do that may take13900:14:15.919 --> 00:14:20.799us the wrong way. Or wemay be on that path of of getting14000:14:20.840 --> 00:14:24.840there sooner than we thought, butbecause the mistakes that we've made, we've14100:14:26.200 --> 00:14:28.279veered off into a path that's gonnatake us all the way around the moon14200:14:28.360 --> 00:14:35.720and back in order just to getthere. I know this may make sense14300:14:35.720 --> 00:14:39.399to some to others that may notmay not make sense at all, but14400:14:39.480 --> 00:14:43.320for those that they do, I'mjust praying whatever it is what I'm saying14500:14:43.440 --> 00:14:50.600right now well register, you know, in your spirit, in your mind14600:14:50.679 --> 00:14:54.519and your heart are in your thoughtor in your everyday walk, in whatever14700:14:54.639 --> 00:15:00.480journey that you may be on rightnow, to whatever go the you said14800:15:00.480 --> 00:15:07.320out to achieve, no matter howbig, no matter how small. I14900:15:07.440 --> 00:15:09.759say this all the time. Progressstill progress, recalled, that of how15000:15:09.840 --> 00:15:16.639small or big it is, aslong as you continue to still move forward,15100:15:18.799 --> 00:15:30.840that's progress. That is progress,and I believe in continuing to progress15200:15:31.600 --> 00:15:37.919in everyday life and all that Ido and then all that God has leading15300:15:37.960 --> 00:15:48.600me to become. I want tocontinue to be a better me tomorrow than15400:15:48.639 --> 00:15:56.440I will today and be a betterme today than I was yesterday. That's15500:15:56.440 --> 00:15:58.320one of my goals in life.That's what I strive to do each and15600:15:58.360 --> 00:16:07.919every day. Yeah, sometimes Ifall short, but it doesn't mean that15700:16:07.960 --> 00:16:17.279I stop. I picked myself upand I keep going. You can too.15800:16:18.039 --> 00:16:32.120You should. You are your onlylimit, the only limits that we15900:16:32.240 --> 00:16:37.519put on ourselves, or they getin the way of, rather get in16000:16:37.519 --> 00:16:40.919the way of whatever it is thatwe're sitting out to do we put those16100:16:40.919 --> 00:16:48.600limits on ourselves? I don't wantto have any limits. I choose not16200:16:48.639 --> 00:16:52.799to have any limits because whatever itis that I set out to do,16300:16:55.679 --> 00:17:00.639I plan on achieving it. Itmean not happened in the time frame that16400:17:00.679 --> 00:17:07.400I think it should, but itdoesn't mean it's not gonna Happen. The16500:17:07.480 --> 00:17:11.039saying goes around. It says,uh, a delayed by God is not16600:17:11.160 --> 00:17:15.319a deny, especially if I keepGod in the midst, which I try16700:17:15.359 --> 00:17:18.680to include God in the misdief anyand everything that I do. But just16800:17:18.720 --> 00:17:22.160because it didn't happen when I wantedto, in my time, doesn't mean16900:17:22.160 --> 00:17:25.799it's not gonna Happen when God isready for it to happen. For me,17000:17:26.480 --> 00:17:37.680his time is different than ours.It is different. So I know17100:17:37.759 --> 00:17:42.480something. He's sitting there wondering,like why do you always bring God in17200:17:42.519 --> 00:17:45.720the midst of anything? Because,guess what? God is the end all17300:17:45.759 --> 00:17:52.519and be all. That's nothing wecan't do in his life without him.17400:17:52.559 --> 00:18:03.119Nothing. We all should strive towork towards to having a relationship with God.17500:18:04.480 --> 00:18:11.079We all should strive for that.That is the most important relationship that17600:18:11.160 --> 00:18:18.559we can cultivate. My people themost relations me. Most important relationship,17700:18:18.559 --> 00:18:22.599not with your spouse, not withyour kids, not with your boss,17800:18:22.920 --> 00:18:27.599not with your friends, not withyour around, with the Creator. That17900:18:27.720 --> 00:18:33.759is the most important relationship that wecan cultivate. That is the most important18000:18:33.799 --> 00:18:41.640relationship we must strive to have,because we can learn to get out of18100:18:41.680 --> 00:18:48.119our own way and in developing thatrelationship with him, then look at this18200:18:48.200 --> 00:18:55.240journey that we're all go oh sosmooth now. It doesn't mean that you18300:18:55.279 --> 00:18:57.599want to run into obstacles. I'mnot saying that. I'm not gonna Mislead18400:18:57.640 --> 00:19:02.319anybody that's saying you have that relationshipwith God, you're not going to experience18500:19:02.359 --> 00:19:06.920anything, any type of hardships,any type of trials or tribulations, stumbling18600:19:07.000 --> 00:19:11.720box, blocks, setbacks or whatever. I'm not gonna even Sitt and trying18700:19:11.720 --> 00:19:14.440to fool you like that and saythat that's going to happen, because it's18800:19:14.480 --> 00:19:22.119not the case. But you havethat relationship with God, it will take18900:19:22.160 --> 00:19:26.839you from one level to the nextand he to make this journey that we're19000:19:26.960 --> 00:19:36.400on again so much smoother and tomake you so much happier. Trust me19100:19:36.440 --> 00:19:44.799on that. Trust me on that, believe it. M Hm again,19200:19:44.839 --> 00:19:53.039I'm hoping you are having a greatweekend so far. Um, I'm actually19300:19:53.079 --> 00:19:56.039currently working on I know you all, and you've heard me say this before,19400:19:56.039 --> 00:20:00.319about the things that we have comingup and currently under construction. Right19500:20:00.319 --> 00:20:06.519now, I'm actually working on anotherpodcast. Um. It's it's still in19600:20:06.519 --> 00:20:10.880the developmental stage right now, butonce I get it going get a name19700:20:10.960 --> 00:20:14.920forward, I'm gonna put it outthere for you all and I hope that19800:20:14.960 --> 00:20:18.880you all to supported just as muchas you've been supporting currently on the construction19900:20:18.960 --> 00:20:22.440since we been, you know,brought it to Um to life almost two20000:20:22.519 --> 00:20:27.599years ago. Um. But I'mcurrently working on a podcast. The concept20100:20:27.640 --> 00:20:32.880of it of just listen to someof what you all say and what you20200:20:32.960 --> 00:20:38.960want have brought to me about arelaxation podcast, a podcast that you can20300:20:40.000 --> 00:20:45.319listen to to relax, to somethinglike the calm app put on a different20400:20:45.400 --> 00:20:49.839level, but that's something that Iwant to be able to bring to you20500:20:49.920 --> 00:20:56.039all to happy on days that youmay be stressing that you want to relax20600:20:56.119 --> 00:20:57.960or you may need something to listento to give you know, to calm20700:20:59.000 --> 00:21:03.960you down. Uh. That's whatI'm working on right now and once we20800:21:04.039 --> 00:21:07.240get it going, we get itdeveloped, I get samples, or whatever20900:21:07.279 --> 00:21:11.559the case, out. I'M gonnasend those out for you all to listen21000:21:11.559 --> 00:21:18.400to, to get your feedback soI you can help me bring you the21100:21:18.440 --> 00:21:26.720best possible product that I can toshare with you all. So be on21200:21:26.759 --> 00:21:32.359the lookout for that in the upcomingmonths. It's coming, so be on21300:21:32.400 --> 00:21:37.440the lookout for it. Um Again, I want to thank you all for21400:21:38.119 --> 00:21:41.519joining us today on currently on theconstruction. That is my time. We21500:21:41.599 --> 00:21:48.160do this thing twice a week.Uh, you remember, you can listen21600:21:48.200 --> 00:21:51.119to us and wherever you get yourpodcasts. You can listen to us on21700:21:51.599 --> 00:21:56.480spotify, Google podcasts, apple podcastbreaker, radio, public overcast, pocketcast.21800:21:57.400 --> 00:22:03.079I heard radio, deezer sounder andmany, many others. Again,21900:22:03.200 --> 00:22:07.279you can listen to US wherever youget your podcasts, apple podcasts, Google22000:22:07.319 --> 00:22:15.559podcasts, spotify, radio, publicovercast, pocket cast, Deezer Castro r22100:22:15.680 --> 00:22:22.519heart radio and many, many others. So continue to support us, continue22200:22:22.559 --> 00:22:26.359to uh send us your email messages. Uh the email address that you can22300:22:26.359 --> 00:22:30.920send us to it if you don'talready have it. It is under construction.22400:22:30.599 --> 00:22:34.599Nineteen seventy four AT YAHOO DOT com. Once again, that is U22500:22:34.920 --> 00:22:41.599N D E R C O NS T R U K T I o22600:22:41.960 --> 00:22:48.599n seventy four at Yahoo DOT com. So continue to send us your emails22700:22:48.640 --> 00:22:52.000with your thoughts, subjects that youmay want us discuss on, any feedback22800:22:52.079 --> 00:22:56.119that you may have or if youjust want to say hi. Continue to22900:22:56.160 --> 00:23:00.279send us these emails. Were reallylove it. Were really appreciate you all,23000:23:00.480 --> 00:23:03.960Um, supporting us, sending us, uh, the messages that you23100:23:04.000 --> 00:23:07.519do, and we really really appreciatethat. So I want to thank you23200:23:07.599 --> 00:23:11.119for that and I just want tothank you all for taking the time out23300:23:11.119 --> 00:23:15.680of your day to listen to ushere and currently on the construction and I23400:23:15.720 --> 00:23:18.960know you didn't have to, butfor you to take the time out of23500:23:18.960 --> 00:23:25.039your day, cousins and King folks, I really appreciate that. Um,23600:23:25.160 --> 00:23:29.119while I met it, I actuallydid have a message from the email bag.23700:23:29.319 --> 00:23:33.880Um. This person asked why doI refer to people as cousins?23800:23:33.880 --> 00:23:38.240Are King folks? You know we'renot related. Well, the answer to23900:23:38.279 --> 00:23:41.480your question is this. I meanI know every one of you personally,24000:23:42.559 --> 00:23:48.319but you all are my family andwe all come from Adam and eve.24100:23:48.359 --> 00:23:56.400So we all are related, regardlessof whatever race, color, creed religion24200:23:56.559 --> 00:23:59.880or whatever it is to be,we are all related. We are all24300:24:00.039 --> 00:24:04.279God's children. On top of that, to add on to the where all24400:24:04.400 --> 00:24:08.880his children. So, since Idon't know you all by name, you24500:24:08.960 --> 00:24:12.920all are my family. So youall are my cousins and my kid folks.24600:24:14.720 --> 00:24:18.799So that's how I refer to you, that's how I see you and24700:24:18.799 --> 00:24:23.279that's how I love you, mycousins and King folks. All right,24800:24:23.359 --> 00:24:26.440y'all, I'M gonna get on upout of here again. Be Looking for24900:24:26.480 --> 00:24:30.200the next episode, in the nextin the next couple of days. So25000:24:30.680 --> 00:24:34.039until then, you know our motto. It takes a village to make this25100:24:34.119 --> 00:24:40.000thing happen, and you all aremy village and we're gonna continue to build25200:24:40.000 --> 00:24:45.359this thing together, step by step, one break at a time. Currently25300:24:45.400 --> 00:24:48.000under construction. I love you all. I talked to you in a couple25400:24:48.039 --> 00:24:52.000of days. Everybody has a greatweekend. Like I said, get on25500:24:52.039 --> 00:24:55.240our side, get on out thereand enjoy yourself and I'll talk to you25600:24:55.319 --> 00:25:00.000all soon, in a couple ofdays. Take it easy. Peace. The